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Yo girls, letโ€™s say youโ€™re at a nightclub, would you like a guy to approach you? (Obviously with manners)

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@ruchi23
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Definitely

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Anonymous
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@ruchi23 can tell some subtle ways to not come off as a creepy in this situation

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Anonymous
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Introduce yourself, ask her name. A nice smile goes a long way, if she responds, politely ask her if you can buy her a drink.

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Anonymous
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Thanks ๐Ÿ‘

@ruchi23
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Just go to her, introduce yourself in a nice manner, smile, donโ€™t be chipku, behave properly, then ask her if you can have a conversation with her. Just politely and trying not to disrespect her.

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Anonymous
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Sweet! Would you be down for something more than a lil chat tho

@ruchi23
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Sorry, didnโ€™t get that??

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Anonymous
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Thanks ๐Ÿ‘

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Anonymous
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I mean, letโ€™s say Iโ€™ve approached you, but in the back of the mind my intension is to hookup. Would that be fine to ask

@ruchi23
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And please please donโ€™t compliment about her dress or her body because that can be offensive.
PRO TIP- always start by complimenting her smile.

@ruchi23
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In this case I can say that now even girls are interested in hookups, but to know that youโ€™ve to know what she wants.

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Anonymous
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Replying to this msg Sweet! Would you be down for something more than a lil chat tho

By something more u mean like a magic trick or flirting

@ruchi23
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Haha Iโ€™ll go for a magic trick.

@painisgone
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Gotta learn some magic tricks then

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Anonymous
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Nope i mean, a one night stand of something similar

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Anonymous
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So true haha

@ruchi23
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You can ask the girl if sheโ€™s okay with it or not, because sometimes even girls also want one night stand and thereโ€™s nothing wrong in it.

@ruchi23
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@painisgone definitely ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Anonymous
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Yupp. You seem cool tho, would you like to be in touch?

@ruchi23
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Sure, your name?

@ruchi23
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Yes, you can drop your handle

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Anonymous
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angrah ? full name?

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Anonymous
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Iโ€™d like a guy to approach me but with a friendly respectful manner. We know night clubs usually lead to something more but if you approach a girl with the same intention in your manner, then that might scare us off as it seems to be very creepy.

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Anonymous
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So youโ€™re trying to say that we should be friendly first, even if weโ€™re looking for something more?

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Yes! From our perspective, we have seen and met a lot of creeps. So we can Instantly tell if a guy is approaching us genuinely or with some creepy intent.

And by genuinely I mean, approach us respectfully in way of talking and gestures. Compliment us but not some creepy compliment. Start the conversation by saying something like "I have seen you quite a few times hereโ€ฆ " Or something similar. Something that sounds general.

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Anonymous
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YES. But with manners matters a lot. That can make or break the vibe.

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Anonymous
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Definitely! But the would you be down for something more?

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Anonymous
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Depends on the girl

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@flute
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Hahaโ€ฆnightclub!! But if she is Cinderella who has a specific in-time?!๐Ÿ˜‚

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Anonymous
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Well if she looks like you, i would be approaching her anytime ๐Ÿ˜Œ

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@flute
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That was smooth!๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜Š

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Anonymous
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So what do you say pretty girl? ๐Ÿ˜Œ Wanna be friends?๐Ÿ˜‚

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@flute
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Certainly, but itโ€™s fun to be good acquaintances first!

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Anonymous
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Definitely ๐Ÿ˜Œ
Want to share your insta?

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@flute
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Sure but let me clarifyโ€ฆI am not at all looking for any sort of hookups or even strings attached!๐Ÿ˜

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Anonymous
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Chilk out ๐Ÿ˜‚ i also just wanna be friends/ acquaintance

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@flute
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Whats ur ig handle?

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