Yesterday night was tough , we broke up with a lot of misunderstanding and there was no urge to hear any thing to save the whole thing which make one go to a decision that I was never the reason for him to stay he didn't even fought and so easily let go everything like we never loved each other it's not okay my heart is sanking down but somewhere I know the things but it's hurting what the hell

yes, and you too, please be strong, and if you want we can talk on Instagram or something💜

Honestly my intentions were never to hurt him even I always asked him to talk , to say when I'm wrong or how ever the thing is 
Rest idk where I went wrong to save this realtionship

Mental Health

Hi I recently meet this guy on a dating app. We talked for a few days n then decided to meet. Our date was really very nice. After that we meet n from then we started making out. We usually don't meet out like in public places n it becomes weird for us there. When we meet for the first time that day we decided we won't date or be into relationship. Now its been 5 months we meet twice a month n make out. I had a crush on him since the start like when I gave him a right swipe. That time he also did had a crush on me. When I asked him what about next so he said we decided earlier only that we won't date or be in relationship but now I really wish if things go ahead. Idk what to say or do.... Just confussed.

Relationships

I feel terrible... I thought I moved on from him..but I still am not over the memories, the fact that I ignored all the red flags and let him wrong me all the time. It feels really lonely now. I feel so furious at myself for letting him disrespect me and abandon me the way he did, for getting so attached, investing so long in someone who never cared at all and left me all alone when I needed him the most. I feel I won't ever find love again. Nobody will truly love me the way I did once. I won't be happy the way I used to be ever again. 

Anxiety

Yesterday I had a fight with my boyfriend.....it was like a boy whom ik from a year called me and I've been ghosting him since forever i never actually talk to him I answered the call yesterday and he was talking about coming to my city so I said "I've already been clear that I'm in a relationship and I'm pretty serious so it's better if you stay away and stop calling or texting me and seriously I don't want anything with you" in the mean time my boyfriend called and it showed busy so I panicked on how will he react to this so when he asked whom are you talking to I told a friend's name but he knew I was lying.I didn't mean to intensionally lie it just at that instance I didn't know how to avoid a fight for a stupid reason so I said that.but when I told him the truth and I was totally honest he misunderstood and we got into a fight which I agree was my fault. But obviously I can't back my words and after all the explanation he's still mad and says he doesn't trust me anymore. I totally take the blame but I love him so much I can't see him like this and now he's not even in the same city for some days... I really want to make it up to him but idk how!!

Boyfriend

I know this may sound cliché, but I'm in love with a guy who's damn shy with expressing his feelings and I completely understand, although through conversations, I've made him feel really comfortable about sharing things with me, dropped a few hints too (that he could share anything with me and I won't judge) but he still hasn't. And I know he likes me too because he keeps sending these romantic memes. I once confronted and asked him if he feels the same way, he said he's too shy to express anything. Honestly, earlier it used to give me an adrenaline rush but now I'm at a point where I just can't with him, it has taken a toll on my mental health. I keep trying to avoid conversations with him now thinking that my feelings would go away, but I ended up feeling more anxious. I thought of blocking him too, and I had once done it for fun but he flipped and asked me to never do that again. When I asked why, he said he has to "stalk" my pictures ( wtf!? ) I'M JUST TOO TIRED:(
WHAT SHOULD I DO?



Crush

I’ve always lied that about my first kiss but I’m reality, he was my first kiss and I really enjoyed it. And, we were supposed to become an official couple but he started ghosting me. I started dating someone else (#2) as a rebound (which was completely unlike me). I could never let #1 out of my mind and after around 1.5 months, on a very difficult day of crying and drinking, I ended up “cheating” on #2 with #1 in the middle of the night. I’ve since obviously broken up with #2 (we were never official but still did it immediately the next day). Now I am hooking up with #1, he comes over to my place at 1am and we make out + more. 
I was never the type of person to actually be FwB with someone but here I am. Idk why but #1 has this powerful hold on me that even he doesn’t know about and that is making me keep him in my life no matter what. 

Cheating

I hate him for what he did. He made me so happy and so excited for the future and then he crushed me. I’m so angry at him and I want to get rid of him from my life but I can’t. He was my best friend. I miss him 

I want him to be sad and I want the other girl to not take him back but also I want him to be happy. I really do care about him and I know he liked her. It just hurts thinking about him with someone not me. I want him to hurt 

I can’t see myself with someone else. He says he still wants me in his life and that he loves me. He says even when he’s married he will always love me. I can’t be friends with him. But I’m scared to lose him. The look he gave me when I told him I don’t want him in my life anymore crushed me but it’s too much for me to handle. But at the same time I miss talking to him. 

I don’t know what I want or need to hear. Nothing people say helps and only hurts me more. 

Long Distance Relationship

I've been dating this guy since 2 years 5 months. He's the only guy I've dated and I love him with all my heart. And he does too. He takes such good care of me, he treats me like a queen. And he's the most loyal person ever. I love him so much. But now universities are opening and we're both pursuing law but he chose another uni. And I'm kind of really hesitant in doing a long distance relationship. The thought of him not being with me scares the fuck out of me. I love him so much, I cant imagine loving anyone else. But long distance 😣
Idk what to do, I feel so low :(
Any advice or comment would be appreciated :)

Hii! So i am an advocate, 23 years old. Just completed my graduation few months ago. I am preparing for masters. I am in love with someone. We have been together for almost 3 years now, a simple fairy tale it has been. We two are pretty serious and think of future together. Point is that i am an ambitious person, but i ain't able to focus on my career thinking and worrying about how we are gonna convince our families. My partner although is a very positive chill individual, ready for whatever comes. Since last 3 years i've been severely burdened by the fact that no one in my family knows about my relationship, although we were planning to tell them in the coming years. I live in a typical joint family, and they have been receiving Rishtas or marriage proposals for me (for an Arranged marriage). I had no clue that they themselves have been looking for guys as yesterday my father approached me and out of no where started discussing about one of the proposals that my relatives have been approaching us about. I strictly said No. Being shock driven by all this, i decided to confront my mother about my relationship and how we are planning to marry, just had'nt thought everything to be this soon. My mother and sister in law handled the whole thing with immense positivity. But as i wasn't prepared for all of this to happen so soon, i am facing panic attacks, i have completely lost my appetite due to stress, and no sleep. Why is it so difficult for an indian girl to discuss something so crucial with her family or parents? Why are we so trapped in the baggage of patriarchy so much that women's opinion don't matter so much? Anyone with words of wise  please help me here. I need it. 

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