Yesterday my girl cheated on me… even after telling her my deepest secret that I have trust issues because of a reason. The guy she kissed was the guy she always told me not to worry about. The reason she got close to him was because she had attachment issues and she was getting really close to me. And I was there for her always even through our on/off phases. N when yesterday I told her to choose between me n him. She chose her, even after me fighting for her everyday for the past 6 months. I blocked her instantly and now I really don’t know what should I do. Be friends with her? Or completely cut her off.
completely cut off , she know exactly what she did & why it was wrong
hi, sorry to hear this and i know it will be really tough for you to move on but trust me this too shall pass, just give it some time and hang in there and one day you will feel it was all worth it at the end. i would say to cut her off. she really doesn’t deserve a second chance after what she had done to you. Instead of thinking about her, give yourself time to heal, focus on your work or if you’re not working focus on what you love doing, like your favourite hobbies. and if you like writing, then you should definitely start journaling. just write about your everyday things or how you’re feeling but please don’t write anything that blames you… you might feel awful about what happened but it’s not your fault, it’s just a lesson to learn because we are humans and that’s how life works. all of this is just a matter of time, trust me boy, IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT AT THE END✨✨
hope you have a happy day!!
I really hope this helps you and lightens up your mood!
Thank you so much… I’ll try my best to be positive and move on without thinking so much!!
