Years ago I got a proposal from a family for marriage. I was a very simple person , believed in love truly… I was totally into him, his simplicity won me but that was just apparent, then I got to know about his lavish lifestyle, party and friends , still my liking for him didn’t changed…and then I was devastated by his rejection, understood love for self is so much important, started loving myself like never before, I am a very changed person now (though I still get crush on people sometimes)…
Presently I have a proposal from another guy, he is lot more accomplished in his career (even when we compare to that of the previous guy) and trying to make it even better, he is intelligent and understanding, well behaved person, seems down to earth, and it’s evident he is interested in me, to figure out if we can make it but still I don’t feel any butterflies for him, I am not attracted to him, knowing that he can be a nice husband, and if I marry him may be i will not be happy because I don’t feel that way and so would not be in a position to keep him happy… I wish I had met this man earlier before the guy who rejected me, because I believed in romantic life earlier , I would not have been in a dilemma like I am in right now… I asked my family to turn down his proposal
I just did what I thought would be best for both of us
