Ye relationship end hone k baad hum khud ko galat kyu Maan lete even jab hmari galti nhi rhi ho
Self doubt, guilt, regret se kaise nikle
So ye start aise hua ki hum baat kiye pehle almost a month
Is ek month m I took time, I didn’t asked anything
No relationship
No commitment
Nothing
Then when I started feeling that I am getting attached and uske rehne se and gayab hone se fark par rha toh maine sab clear btaya and usko bola ki ab hum ek dusre ko enough Jaan chuke and smjh chuke, atleast ab hum ye jrur decide kr skte ki baat kis way m hogi and kis clarity se
Fir hum dono ne mutual decision se relationship start Kiya…
Mutually free mind se apne side se hum dono ne ek dusre ko commitment diya
Fir pyar se baatein hoti thi
Daily call, videocall, late night call
Hmari baat Kam hoti thi toh dono ek dusre ko miss krte they
Everything was going well
One day suddenly she said hum dost bann jaate hai as I don’t feel that I understand you etc etc , jabki I was an open book in front of her
I already had a bad relationship in past and itna bss pta tha mujhe ki koi jab gap Lena start karta toh smjh lo things will end soon…
Main dosti accept nhi Kiya qki insan chijon ko upgrade krta, pehle hum stranger they, then known hue fir halki dosti type then relationship, ab bhala relationship k baad wapas se dost kaise
I don’t feel mera decision galat tha qki lover k baad dost Banna possible nhi h if pyar genuine way m ho
She left me, blocked me.
Still sometimes I feel ki kya maine galat kiya, kya mujhe dost banke rehna chahye tha when she asked to be friends and talk less
Kya koi aisi similar situation face Kiya h, if yes toh please share your experiences and tell me maine galat decision liya tha ya sahi
Bina reason mujhe guilt aa rha and ye stress m change ho rha
