Wow!! So this friend used me as a personal therapist and vented to me about all the mental health issues and personal life problems that he was dealing with, irl and online. He did this for more than three months and now that he doesn't have any more issues (because I helped him work them all out) he doesn't even talk to me anymore! I know that he was just using me but it still hurts because I had genuine feelings for him. >:(

Still trying to tell myself that no matter what I do he doesn't love me for me, so there's no point in changing for him.

Frustration

I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. He cheated. And the worst is he didn't even try to come back or make a genuine effort. It's been over 4 months but I'm not able to move on. He just says he's guilty and that I deserve better.
It really was a good relationship, I don't understand why he wouldn't put efforts even after he's the one who cheated. I tried my best to talk him into it, but no real outcome.

I feel lost. I'm having a hard time moving on. It sucks more cause he isn't even putting me in a place where I can decide whether to forgive him or not. Anyone has any advice? 
PS. I've tried engaging myself in my hobbies, it helps sometimes but when I start spiraling again it gets worse.

Breakup

My ex boyfriend have texted me and said that he is only my friend and is acting as a friend. He knows that I want to find a valuable man and also with a good income, and he texted to me today that I have to stop thinking about my self that I am the most beautiful , or that I am a Queen and that I can find the greatest man…because I am pretty but not the most beautiful and he said that I need to go to the gym , because girls that are having like an example a rich man have boobs, ass, and a lot of stuff invested into them.I replied to him to stop talking like that and his piggy behavior and he said that ohh ohh I am just honest with you, I talked with other men as well who know you and only you think that you are so great, but in real you are pretty but not like the most beautiful and a Queen. And I said to him that I can think about myself how I want , and its not his job to learn me how to think about me. Because with or without gym I am still worthy for the best things in life. Do you think a man that is a real friend would have said such kind of comments and acting that oh no, I am just honest and he says that he wanted to encourage me to go to gym and so on. But I felt insulted , instead of encouraged. What do you think about that? Thank you

Relationships

I feel fucked. I hate my life and what’s become of it. I’m dating this guy and he’s ruining me. He just left me for something, he doesn’t care or so much as bother how I am. He says I love you as a morning routine like he barely means it. He’s stuck on his parents who pressurise him to do the wrong thing even though he’s well aware of it. He’s too self absorbed and I’ve made myself available to him entirely. We’re in a long distance and he puts zero effort to atleast try and keep it working. I hate my whole life. I am responsible for the sort of power I’ve given him over my emotions. I’m in a great deal of pain, have been crying since morning and he happily cuts the call. He’ll spend hours on the couch watching tv rather than investing a little bit of himself in this fucking relationship. I can’t tell him because he starts blaming me and makes me for guilty for feeling this way. I feel neglected, mistreated and shattered. I love him so much that I’m making a fool of myself while he’s out there doing whatever it is he does. I feel awfully bad and don’t know what to do.

Girlfriend

I feel really exhausted with myself today. Everyone who came close end up leaving me i have no one to talk to or to go to. After feeling like this for long I met this guy. we instantly became really good friends. we have been friends for past 2 years. I felt like I could be completely myself around. I never felt this kind of connection with anyone. 8 months back I started having feelings for him. He had just came out of 3 year long relationship. Few months later i told him i like him and since then things have been a hilly road. He said he likes me too. but since past one month he is avoiding me. he hardly talks to me. He started ignoring me like i am nothing. I don't care if he doesnt like me anymore or doesnt have feeling for me. But i really cherished our friendship . i dont want to lose him too. 

Anxiety

Me and this guy hooked up and a few days later he says if we can meet
Up again. I said yes, we were going to meet in a few hours and while that we were sending spicy messages and things were getting hot! And when the time came, he no showed! 🙃 and he hasn’t  messaged  me . Lol what do y’all think happened?

Acquaintance

I have a friend and I am totally in love with him but he is kinda not interested in relationship bcoz of his past traumas.. he knows that I love him alot but it's his decision and I respect it but sometimes we talk and he feel very comfortable with me , he said and he likes how just we are compatible with everything. But I just want a clarity in my life should I just go with the flow by putting efforts orrr should I ignore him and don't talk to him. Because wo h toh kisi Orr prr dhyan nhi bhi jata and I am not a casual dating type person. Should I wait for him to reciprocate?? 

3am Thoughts

I asked my boyfriend if he is thinking about us marrying in the future and he told me it will be very difficult for him to convince his family since we are from different castes.
Since then i am not able to let that thought get off my mind. Now I am very confused. Should I continue dating him and see how things goes or should I breakup with him?

Boyfriend

I am 21yr old girl currently studying and preparing for MBA. I was in a 5 yr long relationship with a Man who is 7 yrs elder to me. Till we were bf gf, everything was ok not that good. We were madly in love with each other. When I turned 18, I eloped with this guy. We were completely different personalities with different goals in life. We used to argue and fight almost every other day. Finally, after getting frustrated of this vicious cycle, I decided to leave him and came back home after just 5 months of marriage. It's been 2 years that we are separated. I am happy in home but he isn't. He still coerces me to come back to his life. He says that he cannot live without me and if I give him divorce or try to get married to any other person, he will kill him and everyone in the family.  He threatens me and my family. I don't want to come back to him infact want to give him divorce. I'm even convincing him to get married and forget me. I don't know what to do now. He follows me wherever I go and spies. I am struggling with my relationship though I have moved on. Also there is no legal support as he shows his power. Though my parents are supporting me but still there is no permanent solution right now. I am focusing on my studies. I feel time heals everything and I am keeping patience but still don't know what to do?

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