Worst experience on this app. I don’t know how is this still working.
I’d a bad experience four time on this app.
First -
When I talked about equality, a guy said man and woman are different they can’t be ewual physocally or mentally. Brahma made them different and all. He didn’t even agree on being equal in status! And then told me I’ve anger issues.
Second-
When I told that my friends slut shames me, he asked me that if they do,don’t you think you should look at yourself. I mean he didn’t ask why they say this/what am I doing that they think so/ uf I think I deserve that or what was the matter nothing, he wasn’t bothered to go into details and indirectly said that I’m probably a slut. And said that if I get angry on this, I’m unable to take someone’s opinion. Firstly this wasn’t opinion, this was clearly shaming without even interest of knowing the story and why would I take insult/shame in the name of opinion from a stranger online?
Third -
In the post about sexual history, a guy asked me for sexting and when I denied, he got angry and started abusing!
Fourth -
When I said, a guy I liked also liked me but we didn’t agree on anything like related or dating or anything and never talked about that too but when we met, he suddenly tried kissing me forced me but I denied firmly.
On this post, one guy commented it to be fwb. I was like wtf.
What the hell is wrong with people here? Am I the only one experiencing all this? Was I wrong in any of this?
sorry to hear that,
you know assholes are every where not just here.
once again deeply sorry for what ever happened to you
I agree with you but coming across suck people on platform like this, kinda sucks.
First one, maybe his upbringing is like like traditional Indian family.
Third one, I mean there abusers and rapists and none if us can do anything to stop it. Every girl comes across such people.
But what triggered me most was that slut shaming.
I was already insecure,usne ye bhi nahi pucha ki unko kyu esa lagta hai/ tumne esa kuch kiya kya/ tuje lagta hai tu ye deserve karti hai kya/ kuch hua tha kya specifically/ kobse atea mai hai area ke karan karan mentality kuch nai…kuch nai.
Sidha bol diya ki “Maybe you should have a look at yourself.”
Maine pucha bhi nai tha ki slut hu ki nai like I didn’t ask for moral judgement, I simple asked how should I deal with negativity.
Fir vo bolta hai muje anger issues hai, I don’t take other’s views nicely.
Ek toh vo view ke naam pe story jane ya janne ke interest ke bina judge nai kar skta muje…vo bhi stranger ko jisko janta bhi nahi vo! Mai kyu accept karu ese view ko? Was I wrong?
Ek toh mai insecure thi usme usne bola ki anger issues hai I was like wow you are really helping nicely.
Maybe it was his poor choice of words par toh hindi mai bolta clear karta… defend nai karta khudko ki muje anger issues hai, mera behaviour questionable hai. Like giving moral judges to someone isn’t questionable but that stranger standing up for herself is?!!
Wasn’t he wrong to say that one sentence?
no he did not make sense and it was all shit,
as i told you there is no doubt that this full of ass-holes.
and i am also certain that at some point of time we have been or gone through this phase, not gonna lie.
But whats more frustating is people there are still talking about how liberal they are but behind the back shaming and doing such things
You should block those people, keep no place for negativity,
I repeat never.
By any chance are you a teenager ??
Umm no I’m not tjough maybe I get triggered like one.
Why though?
no worries, i understand, man girls face so much problem in this world.
Why did you ask though?
which one are you refering to ???
About me being teenager or not
oh i randomly asked
Okay. Thank you for your help.
so pls in logg ko pehli pursat mein block karlena
Definitely!
Ya more power to you girl
Thanks much!
