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Anonymous

Women have been making men self conscious since the beginning of time. They do this primarily by rejecting them , but also do it by shaming them, if men do not take responsibility.
Capacity of women to shame men and render them self-conscious is still a primal force of nature.

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

A man can do everything, agar baat ego ki ho

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Reshma J @lawyerreshma1

Why you are thinking like this? Message me sir… but all women are not like that…
I won’t ashame anybody

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Reshma J @lawyerreshma1

Yes for every women the backbone of our lives will be men… you also too great… and we need you all… for a change.

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Anonymous

No offense bud but nobody needs anyone nd these statements makes the opposite genders competing nd saying mean things to each other so why can’t we all just be supportive instead of showing how bad other gender is (saying this for both genders please don’t go bullying on this )

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Reshma J @lawyerreshma1

Can we see the positive side?

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definitely @el_gato_16

I could say the same about men. They are no less, and let’s be real. They make us women so self concious. “Women are not supposed to have body hair” “they should not have flat chest” “they should be obedient” “they should be polite and patient” “they should always look pretty and beautiful” “they should not have stretch marks”. I could go on and on. But the thing is, it’s not about man or woman. Both of them shame each other in their own ways, and instead of blaming each other about making each other self concious, how about accepting everyone for who they are and not having this d umb and s enseless argument??

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Anonymous

Your beginning argument is spot on but although you can accept a person for who they’re but if you’re not attracted to them or if you don’t like something about them then you won’t be able to spend the rest of them your life with them. And if you do you’d be comprising and resenting.

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definitely @el_gato_16

“accepting” each other doesn’t mean liking each other. It means not to shame anyone for their looks or things they have no control of.

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@aniii

It might be a few instances you’ve seen or just an angle of it. You can’t generalise things like that. It has nothing to do with the gender, it’s about the person.

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Anonymous

Majority of you perceiving it wrong.
The reality is , it is women who bear the primary burden of reproduction - taking care of children.
It is women who is going to suffer if the man whom she choses turn out to be a infantilist.
It’s is the self-conscious state after which men begin to realise the reality.

I am not supporting women here , just telling that if man don’t choose masculinity and take on the responsibility of being a man then it is women who is going to suffer more if they select them.
Men need to be competitive , strong so that they can take on difficulties of life head on with smile and his women can look up to him when she would need help.
Strong man give rise to a better society and also benefit the existence of women.

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Anonymous

Edit → not take responsibility of being a man.

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Anonymous

This is due to the misconception of giving women reservation will give rise to egalitarian society.
You are certainly true that > 95% percent of menial jobs are done by men.
This concept makes women to look for even higher earning man as they rarely look for men who earn less than them which is disastrous for men , primarily.
And you can also say that women somewhere want positions of power only and this so called privileged section will never understand that it is the lower section of the society who gives foundation to everything that we need which is dominated by men.

But this post is concentrated towards morals and ethics not something related to material (money).

But yes it is also true that women need to understand this too as not man has the only responsibility for egalitarian society.

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Anonymous

Your vision is still narrow to even comprehend what does that line mean.

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Anonymous

Bro are you sick ?

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