Within three years, I’ve lost three people from my life. Three very special people. Three friends… who were like a part of me. Being an introvert, I’ve always find it very difficult to express myself… to open up. But in front of them, it was like a piece of cake. Be it any mood, be it any situation, be it any occasion… whenever I needed them, they were there… or atleast, they tried to. But now…!!! I feel so lonely and helpless that even if I want them back, I can’t. They went out of my life as if I meant nothing to them. It was so easy for them to replace me from their life.
Everyday, I try very hard to stay strong, to accept everything and move on. But at times, it becomes so difficult for me!!! Not even a single person is there in my life with whom I can talk to, with whom I can fill my void. At times, I see them on social media… see them sharing good moments, good memories. Afrer seeing those, I feel happy for them and sad for myself thinking that I wish happen I was a part of that moment or their life.😔
Thank you for your well wishes!!! 😇😇
shailza batra @shailzabat...
Hey, I understand the phase that you are going through is very sad, difficult and frustrating at times. I am so glad there are platforms like these where we can share anything anonymously. However I am there if you want to talk. You are so strong and I promise this phase will pass ✨
I hope that phase comes fast … because now, I feel really tired!!!😞
Annie hill @_annie_
Did something happen why your friends left such a sudden that they even don’t stay in touch with you…. being myself an introvert irl and being open to 2 or 3 ppl and giving them a special place I feel that THE THING IS we should not give some other person such a special status that we forget ourselves and give them such a priority in life that we put us behind them and if those people go away we stop and feel that now no one new will come to fill that void
I think give some other person a chance to be close to you but this time always keep urself first .❄️
I tend to keep myself first and probably that’s the reason why they left. But no matter how much you are strong and independent, at times, you feel the need of being loved and cared… to be listened and be prioritized!!! :)
Annie hill @_annie_
I see and I feel proud of you that you kept urself first but now I think you should start giving other people some chances I think there might be some people that talk to you or stay in touch with you other than ur past 3 friends or some people that you think you can approach to .
And then when u have new friends try to understand them try to give them time tooo make them feel special and surely everything will be fine then .
I talk to few people but I don’t get that much comfortness that I used to get from them. You know… typical introvert stuff.
Now, only a miracle can change my fortune and hence, praying to happen one coz now, I feel that it’s no longer in my hands!!!
Bruh same wtf 🥲 but u ve got to be more open to ppl of course not every person is same and things may take time you might be feeling will you ever get those kind of ppl in ur life ? But trust me maybe someone better is out there. On the other side try to keep urself more busy And I think sometimes one’s own company is the best
Annie hill @_annie_
What if u join some app to find new ppl hehe ooor some AI
Sometimes, your own company becomes very poisonous coz u tend to overthink. You think about old times and feel pain, you critize yourself for being you and worst, you try to harm yourself!!! Hence, when in pain, don’t stay alone!!!
Very bad at that. 😂😂😂
Annie hill @_annie_
Oop don’t harm urself keep urself busy in things u like
Annie hill @_annie_
😭😂
Annie hill @_annie_
But c’mon u should give it a try bruh
Trying to do that. But today, it wasn’t helping!!!
Annie hill @_annie_
Do u do gaming ? U know it helps in times like that
Certain difficulties within introvert. Can’t help it. It’s like you are being choked!!!😖
Yeah. I do. And I spend most of my time online… either working or Netflix or games. But few days, u just want to be in the real world and my real world currently sucks!!!
Annie hill @_annie_
Real life ryyyt well Try going out for a walk outside and if u feel uncomfortable by too many ppl try to go for a walk at times when they are usually not much people like mornings try going in cafes that will help you in indulging with real life .
I go for walks. I walk a lot. But going to cafe alone isn’t a good option. U get stares a lot and you feel very lonely. No one goes to a cafe alone.🙂
