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Anonymous

Why it’s so difficult 😞?

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@wie

Hey! I know a lot of things that are different… would you like to share which one you’re talking about?

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Anonymous

I lost someone i loved more then anything else and worst part it is . It all happened willingly

@wie

Oh dear… I’m sorry for your loss. I know this pain is inevitable. And no amount of things I say will ever be comforting enough. But please remember, the one who leaves us, hope for us to accept this truth, and move with life. It’ll be difficult but We’re here for you. Trust me, it gets better. Sending love ❤️

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Anonymous

Everyday i had this dream ki subah uth kr dekh rha hoon phone uske bht saare msg aaye hue hai , And everyday i woke up Jb tk phone ko dekhta hi nhi tb deemag mai anxiety hote rehti hai Ki shyd text aaye honge Throughout the day Mai phone pr whatsapp tbhi check krta hoo agr meko kisi ka msg aaya ho ya mujhe krna ho and i kept her on mute meko pta uska hi msg hoga jiska notifications nhi aayega still without any reason mai whatsapp khol kr dekhta hoon in subconscious mind there is something wrong

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Anonymous

Real feelings just don’t go away

@wie

I understand, waiting for someone who isnt there is too difficult. Btw what did you exactly mean when you said “you lost”? As if she left or she is no more? (Sorry to ask abruptly but I’m a little confused now)

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Anonymous

No both are wrong we had this mutual break😭

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Anonymous

8 years

@wie

Ouch! I am sorry that it hurts this bad. I think if it was mutual, you already understand the circumstances and intensity of it. I wish to tell you that you’ll get over it, but I know it hurts so sad, and there’s no amount of words that could comfort you right now. But trust me, this will pass. It’ll be hurtful, but this will lead you to a better tomorrow. I understand how much you are rooting for it, but I guess it’s time that you also focus on yourself and try to give yourself the love you deserve.

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Anonymous

Thankyou 🙂 for understanding yeah its beem difficult we broke up because she wasn’t the same person and i loved her with having any limits it was hurting me everyday and one day I decided to end it all the way 😞i thought it will gonna better soon but now its been 5 months almost still things are going more vulnerable everyday. I am just stucked . I am not living anymore . Days are passing and but everything is constant for me

@wie

Have you considered consulting a therapist?

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Anonymous

I feel I don’t need one 🙁

@wie

Well, it could be of some help as far as your situation is concerned. If you think you can manage on your own that is fine too. Everyone has their own coping mechanisms try spotting yours, and it’s okay to move at a our own pace. But try to cope, we’re here for you. Sending love 💕

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Anonymous

It’ll get better, I promise.

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Anonymous

I just want to be better and I don’t know how to 😓. Everything is shattered in my life . Parents are forcing to get marry and biggest problem is i can’t able to stop thinking about her 😭

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jay @jay12

Hey what happened

@gudli

What happened? Difficult make you strong.so always be ready to fight. Don’t worry. Everything is going well.

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Anonymous

Breakup 💔 and breakdown

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@ignoramus

Live in the moment, and it becomes easy. Easier said than done. Whenever it feels difficult, think about the story in your mind about your situation. Then dis-identify from it. That story is in the past. You set your difficulty level by anticipating the future based on what you hold in mind. Find out what belief of yours is limiting you to take that next step.

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