I dont think parents will change their mindset…either you may fight against your parents for your happiness…or you may have to sacrifice yourself for their happiness…
Its common nowadays for girls to get a job elsewhere. Make them understand or say maybe that I’ll provide for you, come stay with me and stuff. Please go get that job. You don’t have to stay back for marriage. Tell them stories about other children.
Conflict is inevitable. If you wanna work then you gotta fight for it. You aren’t doing anything wrong. Be adamant about it, talk to them every single day about it , even if they feel annoyed. And if still thongs don’t get well take the step and move out, you need not to sacrifice your dreams for the system( a system established by society). Your parents fear uncertainty and fear of left out that’s all. Once you are successful the fear of uncertainty will perish and about society they are nothing but parasite, forget about them.
