Why is it have to be the closest one that gave us the most pain.
I hate that. I hate the fact that every time I feel sad my brain would constantly told me that I just crave for attention.
Hi @crushy,
I think we put our guards down for the people we are close to, which means we give them to much power and our feelings get hurt, and that is the pain you are feeling.
We ALL want POSITIVE attention from our loved ones, but once you LOVE yourself, what ever attention you receive from your S/O will be like icing on a cake; but just know plain cake is also good.
Be true you thy self, LOVE yourself, and if you feel as though no one loves you; Jesus does! ๐๐๐๐๐
One whom u luv most will give more pain