Why I end up choosing wrong person? Even though I try hard to do all righteous thing. At the end I feel like pouring my emotions into bottomless tumbler.
And this made feeling like not to trust anyone, due to fear to being there again being vulnerable.
Same happened with me. I invested 3 goddamn years of my life in this dead end relationship and he couldn’t even come to meet me
I feel like the lonliest person on this planet after my break up
Smili Meshal @smilismile
It’s because you are trying to be more careful… Stop being caution and let it flow…
What about the constant anxiety, the over concious mind. More often ppl comment like stop being overthinking. Bt that the way I am. I know one can’t please everyone. Bt can’t help myself being thinking abt not to hurt anyone
Smili Meshal @smilismile
People will say based on their experience, for some overthinking was waste of time like they realised it later and some couldn’t help themselves to stay away from overthinking… Overthinking is fine, we all do, but don’t come to conclusion whatever you think because most of the time it won’t happen unless you have belief on it…
I fell in love with this guy in my high school we dated n then we broke up i took me 2 year to move on after that i gathered courage and fell in love again with someone but again it turned out to be a mistake i madw because i wanted to feel loved i wanted to feel like i am someone’s priority but this guy treated me like shit for 2 years he fights over small things he blame me for everything he never tries to sort things up wheh we fight he can go months without talking to me and i am stick again don’t know what should i do my heart don’t wanna feel anything now .
Thank you so much for understanding… i just wanna be happy again i have gone through so much in last 5 years no family support no friends…
Honestly, I’m proud you had the courage to fall in love after being done wrong. Not everyone can do that.
You strong girl! Give yourself some credit about that.
And yes, i get what you’ve gone through. I’ve gone through the same thing. For 2.6 solid years.
I was disrespected and verbally abused and was ABANDONED during every fight. He would just break up and come back after weeks, apologising. I was treated like crap. I did the same mistake. I kept sticking to him and giving him chances. But after a point, i left. I felt guilty at first for walking away, but then, i realised that I was better without him. Happier to be honest. It was just few days time that i understood that i dont need him and i deserve a lot more in this world. Girl, stay strong. You won. Trust the process. You are gonna be happy and the right one is already on his way to find you:)
I am sorry that you’re feeling this way. It’s always difficult to only receive in bits when we’ve been giving a lot. Reciprocating feelings or emotions has so much to do with the person themselves and about the one who is showing it. When we give ourselves into any kind of attachment, we must make sure that both us and the other person are on the same page. Keeping communication practical and being upfront from the beginning is most important. May be people with whom you’ve been dealing with were not on the same page as you, may be they are not prepared enough for things as such, which they should have communicated. It is very much toxic to lead on and then ghost. However, there are certain things you could do to save yourself from these issues. Write down things that are important to you and that you will not negotiate when it comes to those things. For example, if you want a partner who should communicate, then you must not settle for someone who is always running from their emotions or not being vocal about what’s happening with them, you or in the relationship. Do not negotiate and like wish make a list of red flags… and when you see even one, please do not accept. Because these might seem illogical but these could cause severe damage to our mental and emotional health. Add things that really matter to you in the list, and see how you will never have to deal with toxicity. I hope you find comfort, company and love that you deserve. There are good human being out there, I hope someone proves you wrong, by loving you right. Sending love ❤️
You chose the wrong one to realise that you deserve someone better.
You won.
See it in a way that they were just in your life to show you that you deserve better.
And stop. Stop pouring your emotions that way after they’ve showed you that they don’t care about it. Your emotions are precious and trust me when I say this, the right one will never take them for granted nor will they put you in such a low situation where you doubt your worth.
You are awesome and worthy of lot more than this. Stay strong.
