Why does everything feel so lonely nowadays…!?Going through a lot…From moving to New city for college having no friends in class or hostel… Managing everything by myself…I am all okay with managing my work all by myself, love to be independent… But from the past week I am feeling that I could rely on someone…I don’t have true friends, everything around seems so fake I can’t even describe…I don’t know if this is all I am saying out of FOMO…because every one is dependent and enjoying their college life with their friends and I am stuck in my own mind…I don’t know how to cope with this…this is resulting in social anxiety…
Coz you are comparing your life with others and then overthinking about it.
roan @roan
I am in college too last year , i have friends but I never felt inclusive I am just that i am kinda introvert love being alone , but also having friend is important , you can try to make new friends … being college you must enjoy certain things and which city are you in ?
Naked Soul @nakedsoul
Loneliness is a cruse which present generation is going through despite of their ages 🥺
Here’s my advice to you as someone who also has social anxiety. This might not be true to everyone but I realized the more I focused on bettering myself, physically and mentally, the better I felt the more confident I became and the less anxious I felt around people. This is the perfect time in your life to focus on whatever is it you want accomplish. Once you have a family and get married those dreams a lot of time have to be put on hold for a little while. My advice is have a routine everyday incorporating exercise which not only helps ease stress and anxiety but makes you feel better when you start to look better. Eat good nutritious food, I’ve heard listening to 5 songs a day reduced depression in a study. Also find a hobby that you really enjoy.
