Why does breakup hurts you so much! I have lost all my self respect, confidence because of him and still can’t get over him! I feel so so so stupid thinking about this. He stopped caring, he stated abusing and didn’t care about my mental health either so I had to leave him but I loved him so much :/ and miss him badly! I have tried to involve myself in the things that I love to do but I failed. I am frustrated, irritated all the time and I hate it. How will I get out of this 💔
Akash Dalal @skybroker
hey sorry to hear that you had a breakup and have to go through this all by yourself, I hope I could comfort you, by being there with you.
you need to pretend that you dont care about him and focus on yourself and one day you’ll stop pretending and it’ll be all right.
Heyy there!
I’m really sorry for what you’re going through. I know it’s a very difficult phase to endure through. Let me give you a tiny backstory of mine. I was an amazingly active girl at 20 years of age. I had just joined college and looking forward to an extremely fun filled life ahead. And then one time, I meet this guy who I ended up falling for immensely. Our entire friend circle was in awe of how amazing we were for each other. But as the days went by, and the both of us started getting closer, there was some sort of disconnect. I didn’t know what exactly I was feeling, but there was something. 7 months in he asked me to stop drinking (fyi - that’s purely occasional when I’m just out with my friends). And then 10 months in, we were on a call and like any other lovey dovey couple were talking about marriage when he said, wear only sarees at how. It turned into a series of breadcrumbs that were actually red flags. And then came one day, where he saw me at my weakest mentally. He noted it and over time kept pricking and poking me. This was the time where I got a yearback in college. He came to know about it and it triggered a series of events. Humiliating me, mocking me, calling me names, saying I’m pathetic. Everything that’s just ugly. One fine day, everything exploded and just like that it was over. It was an extra messy breakup with a lot of friends involved and along with him, I lost so many of them as well, because even though they were common friends, they sides with him. I begged literally for him to stay and come back into my life.
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Skip to 5 years later, and I just wonder, why did I let him disrespect me like that? How dare he mess with my mental health like that. Girl, if a man has no space or care about your mental health, he may have end up being toxic for you. Trust me you are so much more stronger and I know it may not seem like it, but over time you’re going to feel happier. 😊🌸
