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Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Why do I have to fight myself to be happy? Why can’t I feel loved?

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Anonymous

You are loved

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

But why don’t I feel it?

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Anonymous

Do you love yourself?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Yes

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Anonymous

why do you have to fight with yourself?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Because everyday I feel sad

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Anonymous

Why do you feel sad?? bc of Solitude?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Yes, and because I’m unsupported

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Anonymous

you don’t have a gf? … You don’t have to fight yourself to be happy Naomi …

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

No I don’t

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Anonymous

Would things be different if you had one?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

If I had a partner? Maybe…

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Even if I did want one, my mother’s difficult.

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Anonymous

Why haven’t you tried dating ? Or making a gf?

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Anonymous

Oh mother… then I’d suggest try making some cool friends :)

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Can I ask, why do you say a gf specifically?

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Anonymous

Idk… I talked about this with other friend he was feeling lonely so ig… are you into boys or girls?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Both

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Anonymous

do you have a best friend?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

No

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

No one really wants to spend time with me

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Anonymous

Why not??

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I don’t know

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Being an introvert might have something to do with it

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Anonymous

I think you’re a nice person… I’d definitely want to be friends with you…

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I can definitely socialise better when I rely on text rather than speak

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Anonymous

Same with me… I’m an introvert so i can socialize through text better…

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I have difficulty getting other’s attention.

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Anonymous

I used to try hard … Get at least someone to notice me… But then eventually i stopped… I think things will start to fall in place when it’s meant to be

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Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

What do I do for now?

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Anonymous

You love yourself and Try to make some friends… spend time acknowledging yourself that you are loved

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I don’t know how

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Anonymous

How old are you?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

19

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Anonymous

Try finding friends of same age as yours… Do you go to school?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I do, but no one really talks to me.

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Anonymous

Try initiating the conversation first :) I’m sure the right one will love you just the way you are

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I never know how

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Everyone already seems to be in the middle of a conversation.

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Anonymous

try when they are alone or you see it’s right moment to… My first encounter with my current friend was not so good… But eventually we talked and found similarities and became friends

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Whenever I try to talk about what I want to talk about, they just ignore me.

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Was I meant to be alone?

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Anonymous

Nope no one is Naomi… not everyone will ignore you … Someone will definitely want to be your friend… Do you want me to be your friend???

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Yes

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Anonymous

I will send you a req

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

I’m really just talking about people I meet in person.

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Anonymous

Everyone does the same?

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Anonymous

Sent you a request

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Some are more jerks than others

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Anonymous

ah people…

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

What’s worse is that my mum wants me to make “real” friends.

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Anonymous

Ig she’s worried … She wants you to make a real world friend not one online right?

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

Correct

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Anonymous

Real world friends are better i agree with her on this

Natalie_UK🏳️‍⚧... @cant

But I can’t make any

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Anonymous

You will someday

Cat Valentine @catvalentin...

I guess u don’t love yourself enough. i would suggest u should start loving yourself first.so u can feel others love for u. Sorry if i being rude.

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