Anjali @vegetarian
Why do i feel afraid to connect with people, i think they are too good for even to care for me?
For eg , i think so much before appreciating anyone in my college(I’m not yet friends with him/her) for their amazing talents. Please guide me through your experiences 😓😓
because I’ve ruined or did not make many relations in past just bcs i am shy or what… i dont even know…
Hi,
You arenot shy
You are a little reserved and sort of introvert…
See
When you really from your heart like something someone did
You really find them talented
Then express it
Appreciate it…
Just casually…
Complimenting others for their good work or efforts is the best thing we can do…
This is a good way to break the ice
To start conversations
To make new connections n friends
But see initially u just compliment without thinking much about their reaction
But suppose you make out that person is too arrogant
Or gives a cold response…
Never try complimenting again
U must just make one attempt from ur side
U take one step
N let other person take other step…
Let things happen casually…
Once ppl start mixing with you
I am sure they will love interacting with you…
Dnt think much
Good luck to you…
Take care.
No need to be afraid of anyone
If other person has one type of talent
If they are good at something
You too have some other talent
You too are excellent in something…
N mostly ppl love to be appreciated
Very few arrogant ppl take compliments lightly…
Anjali @vegetarian
Thank u so much di for responding !!
Yeah .I will surely keep these things in mind…
Anjali @vegetarian
😊😊
You feel afraid because of your past choices which lead to bad relationships with people.
You dont want to have those previous relationships so you tend to not form a bond at all.
My suggestion would be come out that shell.
Give people a chance if they want to connect with you. You need step out of that comfort zone of yours try to mingle people at college send a simple text(comment) or something unique or respond to a question. It takes times but its all in you to make that step.
Honestly speaking people with similar problems,thoughts and situations tend form a stronger bond than those who are completely different.
Only you can change your mentality not others have that confidence in you. Give and Grab your chance with new people dont shun them.
Anjali @vegetarian
yes you are 500% correct. Its true. Thanks for ur awesome response ! I do think the same . Its just that I felt really low that day . Now I’m understanding these things 😃😃😊I must try to connect with people I think who are good . Because its the relations with people that matters the most.You cant do everything just living in your own mind. . Everyone has their own abilities. They might not have something which I have. So I should never feel inf complex.
