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Why do guys always try to find attractive and beautiful women? When there’s a lot of women out there who can give them genuine love and care for the rest of their lives?

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sanjain

atleast in our junior years we get attracted by face, this applies to everyone.

and why we dont get attracted then ask our genes why it does happens, its all in out genes.

t

Well, one can’t avoid laws of attraction, whether it is material or immaterial and ofcourse we do realize it bit later if the attraction was beneficial or fatal.

Love then can be defined as a combination of mutual trust, beliefs, care & understanding, but you are right that people often overlook all of these against the physical beauty which in reality fades over the time while trust, belief, care & understanding gradually increases over the time.

Having said that, it’s often said mostly older & wiser 😄.

Anonymous

Even I don’t know let me tell you a real story one of my guy friends has a really pretty girlfriend. Everyone appreciates her for her looks and she is the centre of attraction for many other guys too but her bf still looks for another beautiful women he also talks about other beautiful women in front of her. I don’t get it he has already got a beautiful woman but still he stares at others! Some men will never be satisfied with what they got. They will always search for more.

Anonymous

So sad to hear. I hope the girl finds the right one for her

Took me untill I got divorced from a trophy wife I had now the personality is the first go after now.

Anonymous

Beauty fades but true love lasts.

I wouldn’t know about true love it’s never happened to me.

Anonymous

Maybe im just sad that i cant find the right one for me up until now.

Anonymous

Because kids like shiny stuff😂😂 when u older get u start to value other traits and features of a person, their personality, their habits, their behaviour

Anonymous

Yeah. But sometimes adults want shiny stuffs too coz they think its cool

Anonymous

Yeah maybe cause in their head they are still is stuck at 17😂
If that makes sense

Anonymous

Yeah, but its so sad that sometimes they’re immature lol

Anonymous

Maybe u’ll see people regretting their choices when they are in their late 20s or 30s… wishing they weren’t so immature… bt oh well its all part of the learning curve

Anonymous

Yeah, its the process. Would love to be with serious people tho, not who love to play games lol

Anonymous

Yeah totally understandable… bt u never really know the other person is a manipulative person until its too late😂😂
That shit scares me… trusting anyone only gets harder once u have been manipulated

Anonymous

Yeah, its so scary. Trust once broken can’t be easily fixed. Trusting is hard specially now that were living in a world full of fake people. 🙃

Anonymous

Ah yes… bt even if u are in a world full of fake people, u’ll definitely find genuine people out there who just dont give a fuck… bt being manipulated also taught me things abt life and how not to be naive… so it was not all bad😂

Anonymous

Yeah right. Good thing they taught us lessons that can truly help us to realize things and stuff. 😊