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Anonymous

Why are indian families like this, men get all the rights to speak up their mind. My brother is so concern at times and other times he always act rude, arrogant. It’s always like he got all these rights because he manages the house financially. Life really changed after my Papa died ! At times I think about speaking everything to him on his face, but then I don’t want my mother to get worried about anything. Everyone in my family acts rude turn by turn. Running away is something that seems to be most feasible solution right now, but I want them to be a little bit understanding. Giving up is easier I know but sometimes all these small things are really painful. Life is a complete mess, everyone seems to take advantage only about all this. My beliefs about kind people is vanishing some how ! I feel so alone , even after having some people to talk.

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Anonymous
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Hey, I can feel it must be really tough for you going through all this. There are kind people , just look around. Running away is never an option, try talking with your mom to make him understand. What’s your age, can u also work and earn, so that you can show some authority?

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Anonymous
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My mom’s is a good person She is really but just she doesn’t think of me or my pain and sufferings at all. I can’t make anyone in my family understand a single thing. I am 23, doing post graduation and campus placement is going on. But while waiting to get placed, now this is getting more and more suffocating day by day.

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I don’t know if you will beleive it or not, but I am also in a very similar situation like yours, almost your age but a guy. I can get it others might not be understanding you for whatever the reason. You can try focusing on getting a good placement so that you can try moving out, you must be feeling very toxicity around.

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Anonymous
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I don’t want to live but I am too scared to die

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Anonymous
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Hey hey it’s okay, please don’t think like that. I think it’s something really serious what’s going in your head, but not coming out in words. Take it easy, we can talk things out.

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Anonymous
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I just want to live happily even for 1 day

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Anonymous
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You will be happy every day, acha tell me what has happened today. I am sure he has said something to you today that has made u feel sad.

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Anonymous
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I won’t feel anything good anyday ab kabhi kuch theek ni hoga.

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Anonymous
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Kese thik nhi hoga …Acha if not here can we talk on insta… can talk if u have a anon account there?

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Anonymous
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Ni, I don’t want attention yaar, it’s just I have nobody to talk to about these stuffs and that’s why this platform is my Saviour.

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Anonymous
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Please don’t suffer like that, things need to be vented out

@seenu
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Hey relax yaar kyu itna pareshan ho rhe ho. Agar aesa hai na ki they don’t value you make them realize their mistake. Prove them ki you are also the member of the house and deserve equal response as your bro

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Anonymous
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You don’t know it man, they don’t understand it at all, not even a bit ! Toxicity is killing all my inner peace since starting. Lockdown made everything worst

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Anonymous
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If trying would have worked, I wouldn’t be crying here and sharing my pain with strangers ! If talking would have really helped me, O would have been a lot more happier ! Life is not easy for anyone but there are people whose family members are responsible for making it hard , I am one such person, maybe it’s easy to speak it but trust me it isn’t that easy to say it !

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Anonymous
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I totally agree on what you mentioned but do you think by just saying something like Life is a complete mess or thinking that running away from it would be solution for it.
I completely understand when we loose a important person in life how it feels.
Its not that if men handle the financial condition so they get all the rights to say or do anything.
But did you gave this a thought what would be the pressure of work its not only applicable on men but on women too.

When there is only one person to handle the financial conditions at a time when he/she lost his/her father and everybody’s responsibility is there.

There is so much pressure of work and in this Covid times much more than ever. There is many things going around in the head. He might talk to you sweetly at times and rude at times, its because the situation which he might have faced in his work. There is many things I know it may feel wrong but you should support him and even if he would be at your position I would have said the same thing even to him.

Be happy and Keep Smiling

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Anonymous
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Let’s say that I was wrong yaar, I don’t want to get into some fights because I don’t have the energy for same. But the situation isn’t same as per everyone’s opinions.

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Anonymous
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Not about defending him, but I am just too sad about nobody understanding me in my own family.

@seenu
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Its never about right or wrong and we are not here on this platform to fight. This platform is for sharing the thoughts and try to help someone out with their thoughts.

If you did not liked what I said.
I am very sorry if my words hurt you.

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Anonymous
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Actually I am also sorry but debate karne ka energy ni tha toh I said fight ni karna

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Yes we should stop here.

@seenu
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I am not saying that I’m defending him. I even mentioned that even if you were in his situation and he in yours he might also feel the same as what you are feeling right now about it.

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Anonymous
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Maybe I am unable to say things clearly but this is actually hurtful. Things are supposed to get better but they aren’t. It’s not that ki I hate him, but I need him but ni he doesn’t care at all… Kissi ko ni h mtlb.

@seenu
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Ok sorry for it no issue
Tc

@seenu
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Just one thing I would say have patience and wait for the right time (Confront him) everything would turn good. I don’t think I should answer further it may hurt you even more.
Nice talking to you πŸ˜„.

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Anonymous
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You are having some sought of insecurity of loosing something that important.
You are just complaining that’s, it you don’t want a good solution and nor you are trying yourself to find one.
I am damn to young to you but still trying to help you out.
Be courageous talking like β€œI wish to live at least one day happily”
How can you even imagine something like this. If you say such things and try to do such things will everything be fine.

Try to face the truth and give the best you can.
β€œStop it” , better say it to your brother and the members who are behaving with you in that way show your courage over there.

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Anonymous
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I am courageous. I speak up my thoughts at some point but they never gets my pain or my thoughts. I get scoldings for various reasons. None of them shows concern or care when I get hurt. Life can’t get more cruel than this. But you can’t fight with your own family members. While thinking of running away I know with my knowledge and skills I will definitely get a small job to survive but then just because of me I can’t ruin their respect in the society. I tried talking politely, while crying, saying happily, loudly but none of it helped as if my existence is just there to complete the responsibilities and I don’t have any rights to complaint ! I tried thinking like that way as well, even if it is 24 hours only all I want is happiness and peace. But nothing helps. I am really an impatient person, but still in this case I am waiting since last 6 years approx just to get thora sa love from my mother, brother and sister.

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Anonymous
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I can understand how you would have felt with so many things happening with you in this life.
But it can be solved don’t think that you are being scolded. You said you can get a job with the amount of skill you have so just wait for the right moment and just bounce back.
Every time you try things it would be perfect is not possible. But yeah every time you try things you would come up with new things and understand the situation in much better ways.
Which would help you out in future that’s for sure.πŸ˜„

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