Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

I feel it kinda is my fault

No bro… you are okay but people are not 😆😆

But all my friends and people around me doesn’t have that problem

Like the thing is I am not scared of strangers 🥲am scared of people i know

Every person has different mind set bro. You might not vibe with them or not feeling friendly… sometimes it is people’s behaviour as well that scares us…

You observe and out those things in your mind… Which make you feel this.

I don’t think so because most of the people doesn’t consider me existing 😂

What

Still you fear of them…🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ya🙂🥲

What do you do when you are around people.

My whole life i have been facing 🥲. faking smile faking happiness and i don’t think I can make it

You are what you think. If you constantly think that you can’t make it, or that you’re not good enough then you’ll NEVER be. Faking it till you make it doesn’t mean you fake your happiness. You fake your confidence till it becomes you. If you’re insecure that will become you. Also everyone around you is faking it. No one has it sorted. NO ONE. just chill out and take it lightly. Focus on things that should matter. Let go of things that don’t. I read this somewhere, if in 5 years you’re not gonna remember it then don’t waste your time thinking about it now.

Find your own happiness. No one can do this for you. You alone can find it.

But it’s kinda getting serious now a few months back there was an festival and i wasn’t in the mood to go (scared)but my parents pressured me to go and as I reached there I found some people i know and my heart was like beating fast and ran back home and lied and said I had headach

I think am happy in my closed room doing nothing and all alone

It happens. Maybe you feel like you’re less accomplished than the others. Or you don’t want to answer the questions your relative will ask because you haven’t figured life out. But let me tell you, NO ONE CARES. They’ll ask you and then go home and forget.
But I totally understand this feeling. I felt it too. But I just dress well and go out in confidence even though inside I’m crumbling.
What you’re feeling is normal. But don’t avoid people. Cause eventually people will forget about you and you’ll be all alone.
No one cares as long as you are a good person. I’m sure you have a great personality that people will enjoy. Share your talents and skills with people.

Also you can always go to a doctor. A psychiatrist, therapist will help. They prescribe medicines for these feelings that will endorse your happy hormones. Also talk to your parents when they’ll hear how you feel they’ll understand you better. Let them help you. Don’t assume they won’t understand. Your parents want you to be happy after all.

Nah I am a boaring person no one likes to talk to me

Did anyone tell you that you’re boring or did you just assume?
Even the most boring people have friends. Don’t find excuses.

I know no one really cares but i don’t know why I am feeling like this it’s driving me crazy 🥲 tomorrow I have an exam and all I do is crying .i avoided people today 🙂there was an event and my friend came and called me and i said I am not in the mood and she left without a word .

Then what are the reasons of people not talking to me like they talk to other people well .

I have said it and my father said it’s all in my mind like I’ll give you a book to read and stuff.my father mostly talks to me about my studies (he believes knowledge is the true happiness)and a busy mom she has a lot of problems for herself

Every relationship is a give and take. If you sit in a conversation without participating in it cause of your insecurities then people will get bored. They don’t know you’re insecure. It’s not cause they don’t want to it’s cause they don’t know how.
If you spend all your life avoiding a conversation and people then can you really blame the people? Even if they want to be friends with you they can’t.
Seek help. Go to a doctor. It’ll help you. Trust me.

Tell them you want to see a doctor. Tell them you need to. Make them take you to a doctor for your happiness.

Mm it’s really messed up🥲

I thought I ll go alone .am 18 so is it ok?

Yes!!! If you have the money please do go. It will really help you! :) I hope you feel better. Do go! Don’t be alone. Life is really short. Enjoy it while you can!
I hope you stop avoiding people. I hope you’re surrounded with people who love you. Atleast one person. :)

Maybe! :) but also maybe not. We spend too much time fussing over matters and complicating things that shouldn’t be. As long as one is happy it’s okay. But if you’re not happy then one must seek help!

Thank you 🥺❤️

To u?

Yess