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While reading the replies about people who keep supporting and how people feel cheerful after receiving support… I feel in life we just need to be feel supported and loved… In today’s time or whatever, people are judged by their actions and behaviour that would be fine at some point but there is this thing prevailing called unloved, ignorance and criticism. We make mistakes…may be we don’t improve but why do we feel unloved, ignored and hated? On the other hand, when we feel loved, supported and heard we feel everything is okay. I feel material things, number of friends and counting family people and receiving gifts and throwing parties all mean nothing if we feel down and worthless. They don’t even mean EVERYTHING when we are HAPPY…
All we need is love without any condition. We all deserve it. We cannot ask for it because it isn’t received by asking…

I observed when we first start supporting, sending love or giving love in the form of support, understanding, listening that kind of turns out to be a healing therapy to the giver itself and the receiver… This could be like a chain reaction…
We mistake in thinking people are living perfect lives… I don’t know how much and how often but everyone is seeking something to fill the void that is endless… Like they are seeking positive things because they haven’t got it enough… sadness, jealousy, hatred, greed, attachment, etc are grown out of a root of not having enough… Doesn’t matter even if you have wealth of all three worlds… But just a thought of I am want something else, something more, something different, something ‘my way’… This thought will never be enough and the void will never be filled…

And just one thought, ‘I am enough with whatever I am…my flaws and my strength, I have enough all the lack and abundance…’ fills that void of not having enough.

So it doesn’t even matter if you have people and things that are not how you want… It’s something other than that. That doesn’t involve people amd things. That involves YOU and your observation about this truth that makes you aware of the ‘enoughness’

Please take the path that doesn’t lead you to people and things as a reason for your contentment…

See the other side of life, your life is waiting for you… Give your 100% to your life not people and things…

A man with a little more wisdom than any other human on this planet said-

’ If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goals. Not to people or objects.’

And keep patience in sufferings, be modest in happy times… And see how life responds!! Take interest in situations that teach you values and worth, be neutral in situations that show you worthless things… And see how life responds…

I am learning so much while writing this and I appreciate to learn it together
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Dear Vibha,
Once again this is a very very positive and beautiful post from you…
Thank you so much for
BEING YOU…
Thank you for ur empowering words.
Appreciate your tender heart…
Keep this up always…

Humans have an emotional need along with all sorts of other needs
While we chase other needs
Emotional needs are often overlooked
But these needs are very imp for mental n physical well being…

Our happiness should be in our hands
Not linked to other ppl…

Also the best way to be or stay HAPPY is to spread HAPPINESS…

Make someone smile
N you automatically SMILE…

There is so much pain all around us
Ppl are going through so much…
The least we can do is try to take out sometime
To listen to someone
To speak a few comforting words…

Our little time can act as a MEDICINE TO SOME BROKEN HEART…

God bless you…

Take care…

That’s true and do kind of you!! You are amazing 🤗 Stay strong 💪🏼 power to you ✊

Anonymous

Beautifully said Vibha!!