When I was in hostel I got intimate with one of my friend he is a boy . It happened for two three times but i donβt like boys . I have always liked girls only but yeah never been initimate with a girl yet so it bothers me am I a gay or bisexual given this information and I am not able to decide it.Can someone help ?
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Youβve been intimate with another boy for 2-3 times still you donβt know?
It was just that I was kind of desperate was something like may be a girl or boy we all are actually I wasnβt the one to make the first move my other friend got close firstly I got very much scared cuz I am simple . After that for one year I was very much scared from him that I wish just he just not comes to near my bed. There was a fear within me . I never had that feeling of love with him aisa kuch bhi nahi like it happened. We never talked about it too.
You donβt like boys.
sexually ? or mentally ?
I never ever had this thing with any other boy . Also I never have liked a boy mentally or even physically for sure.
Imagine two very attractive people standing in front of you. A man and a woman. Whom are you more attracted to, physically? That should help :)
Much power to you xx
Definitely itβs a girl always .
Alright then dont worry about it, you were just exploring. And after exploring, you have come to the conclusion that youβre still attracted to women which makes you straight.
However, how do you feel about spending your entire life with a man- in a world with no judgements, where youβre free to. How does that make you feel?
Okay so I considered it and I thought that I canβt do it . The connection I had felt when I was with one girl for a short while that was just wonderful and yeah in future I will like to spend it with a woman for sure .
Its sorted then :)
Youβre straight, my friend. Those hookups meant nothing <3
