Panda @littlepandae
When I received feedbacks from my friend on the assignment βwhat others perceive in meβ, I became defensive when reading them. I realize I was upset cuz I so want to be understood, and I want to be supported to unfold the ideal version of me longing to be born (rather than get wise advice on how to be more pragmatic which Iβve already got and followed so much in the past 10 years). I also notice that when it comes to my dreams, how insecure I feel about sharing and how little Iβve actually disclosed even to my best friends. Itβs so sad.
Its okay to feel misunderstood kyuki we are misunderstood at times. I would suggest you start writing in a journal . If theres more you feel like sharing then let us know.