What’s the actual meaning of being a best friend, sharing every small detail of your day or sharing a problem.
Having insecurities or having trust.
I have gone through so much of this things ki i don’t know what the real meaning is word bestfriend?
I am bit confused lemme know your thoughts
nobody @n0_user
You already described it
I have said or coz
There are 2 close friends in my life and one share everything to me and the other one just being dry(not with me but with everyone,she just talks with me) she comes when it’s really needed and shares with me and until and unless I call or text her she will be ghosting so i am bit confused what should I do
Ik she is just being herself but uk we are more connected to people who we talk more often so i am kinda confused
Hope @cureplace
maybe someone who is always standing with you no matter what, that does not mean you need to share everything or each day detail, that thou bring closeness but I believe, he/she is someone i can look upto every time, be it happiness or sadness.
She is always in my up and down (she too have major family issues ) but whenever I needed her she was with me.But it’s like i always gets the insecurity of loosing her ki we haven’t talked for a while maybe she will get someone better friend than me so it’s that situation what should I do?
Hope @cureplace
you are not couples, that she will get better than you.
I know we have fear of being left out with the people we are attached too but we have to give them their space when needed.
Ik ik we are not couples but as u said that feeling of left behind,its so frustrating man.
But just tell me what should I have think of in these kinda situation?
Should I be patient or just vent out in front of her ?
Hope @cureplace
See man !!! there is no right answer to it, if she is not mature enough, she might take this in negative instance and might not come to you next time when she need someone.
I wish I could give you a better answer to it, but no one can do it.
You know the person very well, play your card accordingly.
Oukay thanks for the advice man.
Rahul Rajput @thatindianz...
It’s knowing someone has your back no matter what.
It’s knowing that you’ll meet each other the same way even If you do after a long time.
It’s knowing someone believes in you and likes you for the real you and nothing is pretentious.
It’s knowing you don’t need to talk everyday about everything, but when you do, you do it consciously.
It’s knowing you both need your space sometimes and it’s fine.
It’s fighting and getting back together with a stronger bond.
It’s something you develop over time!
Ik these ki we have each other’s back but the real issue comes up when I get a kinda insecurities for them ki we haven’t talked maybe they will get a better friend idk what to do then
Rahul Rajput @thatindianz...
Then, maybe there was something like this that happened to you in the past. You should know you matter to them as much as they matter to you.
She needs you as much as you need her. Don’t undervalue yourself. Let her put efforts as well.
Oukay these was a literally a type of answers i am looking for
But the thing is she share her small happiness, problems and also when we meet our energy is at highest level so she is not good with her words but her actions speak a lot. So maybe she doesn’t take lightly to my friendship but idk
Yes, If that’s the case, don’t worry and don’t be insecure. You matter to her and she is lucky to have a friend like you who is trying to make her friendships stronger. Good luck :)
Thanks mate and also for the honest advices for yours
Lucky Star @lucky_star
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Anytime!
Vinay @vinny_virus
The person with whom you feel most alive ⚡ without judgemental speak your heart out are the people. ❤️
It’s when we meet right but we will be not together for every time so i am talking about the things we go through when we are not together baki sab toh sorted hai
Lucky Star @lucky_star
Someone you can share anything without fear of being judged. Someone who will stand for you even more when you’re not around. He/she will stand for you if people say bad things about you. Someone you can be yourself with…
Yeah thanks for the advices mate and yes we share our small happiness and problems too and i have a quite a lot of friends in clg but no one ever dared to backbitched us in front of us(like mere samne uska and uske samne mera aisa)
Lucky Star @lucky_star
But i think the definition varies from person to person but you get the idea
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