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What would you choose?
A person that loves you endlessly but turns into a monster when angry ! OR A person that does not love you but eventually likes you makes you feel happy and is comfortable with you ??? 1st or 2nd??

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no.one @hunn12

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1 (idk why, but tye point is he loves me endlessly

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But he says anything crazy when he’s Angry…n he’s Angry almost everyday…he can say me slut hoe or anything or maybe can say like he can kill my family…ik obviously he won’t but words matter too!!!

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Whosoever you may be…like idk girl or boy… but if a girl… could you take these words for yourself!!!

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I would personally choose the second. People who lose their tempers when angry are a bit dangerous - imo, you never know when they may change for the worse or start increasingly become more easily angered. It depends how they are angry, or how easily angered they are.

If #2 makes me feel safe and happy, that’s all that matters to me - and if they will eventually like me, then that’s that. But this is all my opinion. Just follow your heart and do what you think is right <3

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That’s what I’m tryna do… second one makes me feel much more better n likes me too…then why not give him a chance

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I agree with you second one is better, at least you will have your peace of mind and eventually you will fall in love if he makes you happy. I have been with a person like that who used to say anything in anger and then say I love you but it took a huge toll on my mental health. After leaving him I am single, happy and healing.

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Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495

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I think i dont choose anyone becoz first one quite unpredictable and second one i dont know what is like meaning like how he like u kind of things becoz it is kinda blurred intentions and it leads to hurt too mentally

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Anonymous
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Ummm correct πŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚ still

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Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495

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By the way u still get two options and u have situation to choose but yeah it is difficult to choose but enjoy it 😊😊

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Anonymous
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Yupp tryna enjoy

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I would choose the third who loves me endlessly and is respectful and kind with me during arguments.
Don’t settle for anything less honey. You are not bind to choose between them two only. Keep looking or keep waiting for the right one.

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I may choose to wait for that third one…if it brings happiness in my life 😌n peace basically

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You should wait, no other option!

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2nd

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Anonymous
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N those reasons are??

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But what if the opp person is not ready to accept his mistake…that person just keeps on blabbering shit and does not listen to whatever I’m tryna explain anddd at the end when everything becomes toxic …that person ends up with a sorry n I won’t do next time and eventually does that like after an hour

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No!

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Second one obviously because if the first one loved you enough they would respect you even if they are angry.

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Anonymous
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Exactly 😭

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Always go with the second option… Eventually u guys will love each other… First option will always lead to abuse, starting with mental to physical… If yours is 1st case then pls get out of that relationship. This is coming out of experience.

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Thank you 😊

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