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What should I do when my cousin brother constantly insult me in from front of everyone…
I can differentiate between jokes and insult and my family also laughs when he insult me
He doesn’t see where he is insulting me I’m brother is getting married and he started to do it in front of my brother’s in-laws too.
I really hate him
Please give me some advice

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Anonymous

You should talk to him and let him know how you feel when he does something like that. Tell him that you don’t like it when he “jokes” about certain things and he should respect that and not hurt you.

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Anonymous

I did tell him but then he said joke is meant funny and when we r close, u don’t have to mind becoz nobody mind
Only u do

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Anonymous

a joke it is supposed to be funny but if the person you’re joking on/ with doesn’t think it was funny…it’s no longer a joke
and according to him if you guys are close then he’s supposed to consider your feelings as well before making jokes.
now even after telling him that you aren’t comfortable with his jokes but he still isn’t considering your feelings then it means either he really doesn’t understand what the problem is and why you’re acting like it’s a big deal or he is just yk those kind of people who have inferiority/superiority complex and you just can’t talk to them nicely, they don’t think of you as anything…so better ignore them.
But if it’s the first case then then guys need to have a transparent conversation.
You need to share these feelings to your family as well and let them know too how you don’t like it when the go along with him.

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