What makes a person bad ? Luke seriously before marriage my aunty was a differently person as to what she is now . Who is responsible for this ( and I am not talking about it in a good way) 
May be my family or her own thoughts ? 

I don't really know what kind of change u have noticed so i am not sure .. but sometimes situations ,family,overthinking, realizing reality, many more things matter when anyone change their behaviour 

A person can always fake it in the beginning.


Family

Ever feel like your family's on a wild soap opera? Parents bringing the drama? Been there. Tip: Talk it out. Set some ground rules. And yeah, it's cool to lean on friends or professionals who get this family stuff. Patience is key – change doesn't happen overnight. Take care of yourself through it all. Life's a crazy ride; might as well try to enjoy it. 🚀💜 #FamilyDrama #RealTalk

Depression

Listen...
Don't rebuild those relations
which broke your heart
Its better to say goodbye to the people
Who only hurt your soul by their words as well by their action....and if your family is like that know this that you don't have to take negative opinions of other define you....and if something still bothers you know that I'm here for you always ✨
- Queen 👑


Life

I've been fine for the last few days but today my uncles are coming to our house and I'm so insecure :( I'm very anxious and worried about what they will think of our house and my family because we haven't seen each other for a long time

Anxiety

Everyone knows that one should stay away from negative people or vibes. But what if u can't stay away from them can't even think of make a distance from them bcoz u love them so much and they r ur family but they r so negative abt everything that ur positive vibes are diminishing slowly and u r start becoming one of them but u don't want to make a distance bcoz u love them. 
How to deal with it. 

Is it okay to leave Life in stress everyday Or speak the truth About how you feel And take responsibility of Your life. For many years i Have allowed other People to control My life. I cant do that Anymore i want to speak the truth But my family wont accept me and They Will Emotionally blackmail Me If i dont do what they want. 

FAMILY ISN'T ALWAYS BLOOD. IT'S
THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE WHO WANT YOU IN THEIRS. THE ONES WHO ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE. THE ONES WHO WOULD DO ANYTHING TO SEE YOU SMILE AND WHO LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT. 💗

I have been dealing with mental health issues and I am aware how frustrating can it be for others at time
I know my family means well but they shout and scold me sometimes as if it is my fault..the way I am behaving
It hurts a lot even though the things they say are right
It's like nobody can understand what I am going through...every day is a battle

Any solution on overpossesive family.. Like I have a life dude.. Why do they have to control my life's decisions.. just because you're family? Why do I have to please everyone at home while thinking about my happiness.. other times everyone is chilling and fine and
 busy in their own life but when I think about myself and my happiness, no this will happen, that will happen don't do this don't do that that.... i am tired of this.. why can't I live my life.. when I am away from them I feel free, with no mental and emotional pressure.. why do my family overthinks so much on every little thing.. I want to run away from home..

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