Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Maybe she wantedly doing this so that u realise what you are loosing and come back to her and talk to her family! This type of things are called emotional blackmailing! Dude sometimes we don’t know with what type of person we are living with only after certain situations like this we truely get to know what their true colors are! Don’t waste your time on thinking about her! Just move on.

I talked to her but she said “i dont wanna give you false hope” … and i feel bad beacuse i was the more invested one… at start i told her that our family may not gel up together … but as the time went they did gel up good and i told my parents about her.
But she dumped me saying “I remember you said your mom dont like me”. Which i tried to explain her that was a different situation back then,but she slowly accepted my choice. Even when she was breaking up i made my sister talked to her to make her believe but she still made her move. She dumped me saying “i dont love you anymore” .

Dude do you really think u deserve someone like that? I know love is important and doesn’t happen with anyone randomly but in a relationship love is definetly not enough it involves many more things like trust, compatability, care, efforts etc. Next time when you find love pls do see these things first before making it a relationship.

But why do i still feel like i lost ?

Dude u must have loved her truely! And it’s not that easy to move on! Don’t rush yourself take your time to grief! Eventually everything will be alright! Takecare.

If she would have stayed single for a while i would have understood and accepted that may be i was the toxic one . But she found someone within 10 days of leaving me. Is it that easy? Who’s toxic now ?

Obviously her! Why are you even questioning? 😂

Dont know man ! I was unconditionally giving her all my love. Even behind her back i called her my wife to my frnds and family. But i cant express how i feel.
Sometimes i feel like screaming at her .

As I said! You can’t just simply move on but pls do try to distract yourself with something! If you think about her all day u will endup being depressed and trust me u don’t deserve this!

I hope god kill her …

What did you do ?

Naa that’s not the fair thing dude instead wish that she regrets her whole life for leaving you!

Atleast i was honest with her . Explained her that my parents didnt like you before but as time passed they started to believe in my choice.
But she still left me.
Keeping with a lie is better or losing with a trusth which is better ??

She used to hangout with frnds . But when i asked her for her time she got busy .

Atleast he used to stay in same city. My ex used to cross my home twice in a day. While going to office and then coming back. Still i begged for her time.
Whenever i did there was always new excuse. “These days i dont really get time to talk to anyone” “it was her bday how could have missed it” “when would have i met you? It was 6pm” “i want to meet you for whole day,not for few hours”

I had a defence mechanism ! I sometimes used to block her for hurting me . But unblocked her thinking may be i did extreme. Hoping that she will know it hurts me. But still no improvement. And still she blames me saying “you also used to block me on small things”

Okkay i agree that i took a extreme step , but want her also to consider that it is something that triggers me or i dont feel comfortable about. And do something about that. May be i will compromise too if you would do same for me.

U know , i am not a jelous kind of person. But she used to have this male bff named harsh. I accepted that girls use to have so. But once when i asked her to tell him about me she denied saying “he will get hurt” . Then i asked her “has he ever proposed you” to which she said “yes,he had done multiple times”. Still i was okkay that may be he was honest with his feelings. Then came her another bff named rohit when i met him he adressed me “tum bhi frnd hi hoge” and i looked at her to say anything but she didn’t. Same question has he ever proposed does he like you. She replied “yeah he did,he is my best frnd,whenever i needed him he was always there”
Then came another bff abhishek same response “8 yrs of frndship ❤️ he was always there when i needed him” then again a new bff harsh with whom he staright away cheated.

*he =she

Like okkay i got it yaar u have bff but 1-2 is okkay what is this ? That every other guy is ur bff … and if i have issue please atleast do something about something dont make me insecure and say “there would be no problem if u trust ur partner”

I called her went full on “jab we met” mode on her.

Before me she used t date a guy who was druggist and a gambler. So i said “u deserve a guy like those who is druggist and guys who lied to you and call u to your hotel room, u dont deserve a honest guy who no matter how hard the truth was,shared it with you.
Please throw away the watch gifted you worth 7k it doesnt suit you. Your mom used to blame society for mishaps even she didnt knew her own rose is full of thorns. Atleast could have cheated with better guy then me who earned more than me where i am with 58k in a govt job and where is he earning 15k in a private sector. So have fun. And give these excuses to him when u get bored by kissing him and opening ur clothes for him. Happy for myself that i wont have a wife who has tasted every men.”

She was devastated. She told me “itna attitude aa gya tumme ki u would raise finger at someone job” is this how u respect women”
I told her “yes i have this attitude cos i worked hard for it i studied when every one decided to sleep to get this job,i was not doing inki pinki ponky with girls like you do and went on sitting on everybody’s lap to check who’s lap feels warmer”
And i respect humans not just women. Were my sisters not women for you when they were begging you for not leaving me. This is how you respect women” .

She told me i never thought you would turn into this i said “the person who truly loves turns into evil once they get hurt.” U showed me how feelings changes i showed how nice people change.
“Bolte rho logo ka kaam hai bolna”
“Bolunga hi,aur ye rumours thodi hai ye toh self experience hai”

Hope he f__ks you better than i did.

And please dont pursue teaching cos all you can teach is how to cheat on your partner to your students.

😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂 may be … i gave her the same pain and self doubt she gave me.
And yeah i felt relief that i did… atkeast whenever she would be alone she would doubting her job her choice and her future . Wether she made a right choice or not.

May be coz u hope he still changes his mind and come back to you ??

Then why dont you just go on . From a different number ? It will help trust me…

No dont fall for that shit . These people exploit our emotions. And just call him out. Tell him every mean things you can . That you have kept inside.

What will he do ? Tell ur mom ?

Month? I called her after 3 months.

Yeah i know … i dont know even i think of sometimes telling her mom .??

Even i think so . What good will it do to me …but i want her to feel what misry feels like . I told her i m not a spunge who will take every nail u throw at me . I am a hammer u hurt me once, i will come back to hurt u twice.

I can … but i first i need to evaluate things
Do you think its right to get hurt when your partner frnds meet you and say “tum bhi frnd hoge” and you look at ur partner and she just smiles.

I will tell her mom “aunty this is not a vegetable shop na ki if you dont like something u switch to someone else. We are not bollywood stars we are middle class family and live and marriage is a huge thing for us. U just cant make anyone promise that they will marry you an leave one day saying i dont love you anymore” “now she with nitesh within 10 days of our breakup” “now tell me aunty where should i go”

For the fact i know that she would kick her butt out of it. Cos i was so close to them and we even had good family bonding. That she will say it her that why did she play with me knowing that he is a good child of a good family.

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But before calling her mom i would call her . I want her to beg me like i did . Then i will be in peace .
And i am not afraid even if she chooses to come to my home cos my whole family member knows what she did.

Yeah, we are not selfish for taking revenge. They were the selfish one who left us dead like hit and run .
And they thought about their pleasure i have the right to do for oursleves too …
they made the first move to hurt us…
every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
I dont wanna be a good memory for someone who didnt care about us.

I will let you know …
i m just waiting for her to go back to her job from work from home. So that i can call her mom and have a chat alone with her.

Yeah patience, i waited 3 months for this … more few days … and i will make sure i cey in front of her mom. 😂😂 even i have to poke my for that.

Poke my eyes