Kabir @_kabir_
What happens when your relationship with the girl whom you thought to be the perfect version of everything doesn’t work out?
How to trust other people after that? Trust karna bhi chaaho to ye khayal aata hai - “Yaar! Jisko perfect samjha agar uske saath relationship accha nahi chala, to doosre kisike saath kaise chalega?”
This thought haunts me every time I come close to a girl. And also, I start comparing her to that perception of the “perfect girl” and eventually lose interest if I find any flaw.
I can totally relate. And when you don’t find that perfect match, vibing with people becomes just so exhausting and later you think where’s wrong?!
Kabir @_kabir_
Yeah!
Hope this helps you out, i had seen a reel with the same question the man who answered it said next time when you have doubt about someone don’t trust their words trust their actions.
Their action will prove if they are right to you or wrong to you
Kabir @_kabir_
Well, I have also seen this reel you are talking about and tbh it’s meaningful. It has a valid point. Thank you for reminding ❤️
It is not like that i can relate too but it is not the whole thing …I am.a girl and let me tell you if your relationship did not work even if she was perfect for you …( it was your perception that she was perfect ) means she was never perfect for you from the beginning …if two people are in an relationship …and one of the two people just consider you as an option that is they donot consider you as their priority …then they were never perfect for you… God has made someone way more better for you …also the fact there is no gain without pain implies here as well for meeting the right person of your life all these failed relationships will give you experience and yaa at the end all these efforts will count in your journey to find that right person …that person will come to you when it is mean to be …
K @itzz_me
Don’t mind me … But I don’t think anyone is perfect everyone has their own flaws . If you are finding someone who is perfect then I don’t think you will find him or her . Love is about loving someone so deeply that you even love their flaws .
Kabir @_kabir_
This is thoughtful. Thank you very much ❤️
You are right … But perfect itself is materialistic … None is perfect but 2people dating each other liking each other will eventually think that this person is perfect for me they cannot see their flaws … They donot find any flaws in the person they are in love with…
What do you mean here by “perfect”?
Aarohi @_aro_hi_
No one is perfect no one , nd we can’t say that this relationship is perfect or that bcoz no relationship is perfect , we have to make a relationship perfect by our efforts , we have to fight for it daily , we have to do little Little things that ultimately make the other person happy, conversation is the key of happy relationship .
K @itzz_me
I agree 💕
Kabir @_kabir_
I know no one is perfect in absolute terms. My perception of perfection was that she had everything which I was looking for in a girl.
Well, thank you for the assurance. Means a lot ❤️
Your welcome
Darkness Dawn @snow_fire
Bro if u find perfect girl first u have to be perfect boy which is impossible in every sense. And relationships is not about finding perfect one but it’s about making your partner perfect by accepting their flaws. So rather then comparing Or finding perfect try to find whats special in them because every new person u met had something unique.
Kabir @_kabir_
Thanks bro ❤️
Dante @varun24
Man if she meant for you… whether you say she was perfect or not…she was not meant for you…it’s okay to expect the same love from that particular person…cause of provide them something u also meant they provide you something in return… specially from close one
Kabir @_kabir_
Thank you 😊
Dante @varun24
No problem 👍
xBLACKHEADx @borderlinebit...
Would you believe me if I say I can 100% relate to you.
Kabir @_kabir_
Haha thanks bro! At least someone can relate ❤️
Askaa! @aska
Nothing perfect exists in this world, either way it was your perspective and now that you’ve lost the past bond of yours. you must realise how to change your perspective to live life a little better
Kabir @_kabir_
The most apt reply ❤️ Thanks a lot 😊
I heared a pastor told us that when you love tou should not give her/him a 100% love but have yourself too
Idk much abt love and i dont want to have one someday but theres a right person for u
Kabir @_kabir_
Thank you ❤️
K @itzz_me
Hey ! It’s okay to be imperfect . I know how you feel . I’m quite a perfectionist myself . But sometimes things don’t go your way . Try to accept people the way they are . If you think your relationship isn’t working out because you find flaws in her then stop doing that . I know easier said than done but it’s okay it will take a lot of time give some space to each other and yourself. You’ll be fine I know that .
Kabir @_kabir_
Thank you so much for understanding ❤️