Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

I was organizing some stuff when came behind me and touched my belly. It was unexpectedly because I didn’t hear him coming. I had a crush on him and we been talking to each other as friends

any suggestions would help

May be he trying to flirt or may be he want “that”

Go with your gut

Ask yourself how far you can go with him

Set limits

Never let him over power you

Would you asked him why he did it?

I am sorry you said I will go and ask him ?

no I’m asking if you would have asked him right in the moment … why you are doing this?

like if you were in my place

If i am at his place i touch her hand or shoulder 1st
Them she is comfortable with it go back and elbow
Then later belly

so he’s just a jerk for doing this?

If i am at your place then i see i like him or i gave him thay permission to come under my safe space. Also acknowledge him if i don’t like it. Look if he start touching the belly in beginning then it will be a red flag

Ya i know people who do that thing because they want that

How old are you , where are you both when it happened and what is your reaction

i did tell him and he apologized, he touched me a couple of times in my shoulder before that happened. I don’t like physical touch especially when is asked without permission, but overall he’s understanding

That nice , he trying to flirt, but somewhere i am not feeling good. Because no jerk ever tell you he is a jerk , he behave like a gentleman. Until he knows you start feel comfortable with him

I’m a college student, I stepped away. Told him to not do it anymore.

the thing is that i know that he doesn’t look at me the way i do see him. He might try to flirt but there are other ways. What he did i do not like it myself as well

Ya i agree , if you are comfortable can we chat in chat section further

Do you like him

i do

That’s why you are asking i knew that. He is good with communication and other thing i guess. Tell me how ge behave with somebody weak and helpless. About his weakness. Anger or jealousy. Anything

What are you trying to find out?

He is a good guy or not
If he is it decreases the chance that he will cheat you

If he’s good or bad?

You haven’t answered me yet

Actually I’m asking you because I didn’t get what you said about

When you choose someone see how good heart they have
If they behave good with weak or helpless than it tell us they are not selfish
And how they behave with people they don’t like tell us if they mad at you how bad they going to behave with you

He has a good heart, I remember once i had to walk home by myself at night and he walked with me, having a normal conversation. I just don’t know why he would that but anyway one day i’ll find out :)

Look when we want to impress someone we show our best rest you are smart enough
See what they hiding
I did that alot
I help blind , old , disabled and needy on street the a lot
Maybe I am bad maybe not
But going with a a friend is very normal trick

I don’t wanna look at it at that way because i really had pure intentions, i hope he did as well if not bye from me

I just don’t want you to get hurt, nothing else, as a boy i know when every girl doubt you i can understand his situation
But you need to stay safe
Nothing is free
Everyone want something
I hope you have a good partner . Please stay safe and strong

Thank you for the support, wish there were more guys like you. Happy to meet you :)

Hey if you don’t mind can I ask something
Do you like to having one new friend

don’t get me wrong but I don’t know anything about you or who you are

Take care

wish you could understand

Ya it is common 😶

why would you want to be my friend for?

I just want some good friend just having bad luck

how do you know i could be a good friend of yours, you don’t even know me

What I have to lose

Idk you tell me

Nothing just my time

in a min I thought you were different

I don’t get you

We try and fail until we find someone who is right

talking to a stranger is not always the right start

Tell me who knows when you get born, no one, it is just when we meet someone at the social place we can trust them better because we think they can’t cheat us but anyone can anywhere. It is a leap of faith

I don’t trust people easily especially when I have never meet them

Your life your choice

It doesn’t work the same for everyone

right

Take care

you too 🦋

can i know what your name is

Nikhil

Good morning

where are you from?

Delhi and you
I am 23

not from India but i do love your country

Where are you from ?
And how old are you

i come from Europe, you can guess my age

Europe is small place 🤔
19 or 20

Lol, I’m 21 but good guess tho

😊😊😊
In which course you are

i study psychology, almost done w my degree

What do you study for?

Thats great

I have done my bachelor’s

that’s nice

Thanks , we are talking here not in chat strange 😅

would it make any difference tho?

Yes alot

like what?

Comfort , speed , privacy, connection

I’m not looking for smth like this rn

It okay , how are you

doing okay, tell me smth about yourself like what do you do or what do you like. What’s tour fav color? Lol 😌

Blue , i am looking for job , i like to watch movies and curious questioning

And you

what do you mean by curious questioning?
Mine os green, obsessed with it 😂 i do like watching movies, Indian movies are one of my favorites as well. I work& study, go to the gym, hung out w friends 🤓🤓

That ShahRuk Khan actor will always find a way to me cry. At every movie i have ever watched. Love him a lot tho, he’s the best 🥰

Are you watching a Bollywood movie 😯

I like Hollywood more .
I ask questions about everything. I always stay curious that how i understand world better

I watched so many, since i was little. I also do henna on my hand for fun sometimes 💖 Bollywood is something else honestly

i like that, I’m very into social issue as well and like to participate. What’s your most recent question?

Packed with lots of emotion

Change every moment. Don’t stick to much .

true but they make everything seem so real 🥹

tell smth that you have been thinking of recently, if you would like to share of course

If you watch it in hindi than it is more beautiful

Addiction

i watch them with English translation tho

can you be more clear 🫠

About how our behaviour works , what make things addictive and what is reason of motivation.

Is this something you’re dealing with?

Yes plus i want to understand human behaviour. I mean i am lazy

whenever you need a friend, i’ll be more than happy to help you with it 🦋

Ya but I will loose connect in comment section

Do you follow any social media?

I don’t get you

You mean i am active at social media?

yes, sir

In-sta , sn-ap and tele-gram
And you

In-sta and snp

Want to connect

I’m scared

I can understand that’s why this platform have connection option

I don’t feel comfortable about it tho

nothing personal with you, is just on me

I can understand

i was the girl who you send the request the other day about the best conversation you ever had ✌🏻

Sorry i don’t get you

The guy’s name was like yours, though it was you. Never mind, sorry about that

What’s my name

You already told me lol

Please tell me again , i don’t remember tell you

Nikhil

Oh okay, but i don’t have id with this name

That’s not your real name?

Yes also not used that name on this site

what’s your real name?

Utsav - festival

And your

Why do you use teo different names?

I’ve been knowing him for a while but i feel that he only wanted to try it out of curiosity.

This curiosity will also make him sleep with any other girl & I’m damn sure he will cheat you if he only loves your belly or body just cus Of curiosness

I’m not going for him, never wanted to… just wanted to know what other would do as well.