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What do you guys think what actually happened that people are being too insecure about their bodies in western societies i mean women especially!!!

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But why too much insecurities only in western societies or in cities as well…why!!!

Ravi Rawat @ravi0153

Well I think you give too much importance to those things what you have been shown,spoken or felt either by your parents or people nearby(society) a pattern which everyone follows

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People surely are not that dumb that they start to feel something which is not there…i mean these information does make a place in mind but not that much that they start to make you feel something which is not there…let me give you a hint…their concerns are ligit

Ravi Rawat @ravi0153

Yes and second person is person himself…it is you who is creating that hype.If I am feeling insecure about anything it means something is there which is concerning us if someone speaks to us or bully us either it is body shaming or mental abuse

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Arnav @arnavhi

When you have low self-esteem…you follow crowd and Love materialistic world… that’s what gonna happen…buddy✌️

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Well they do have self esteem but something breaks their self worth and self esteem and i don’t blame them for that…what is that something!!!

Micklem @krish6

Just don’t give a shit about what others say about ur body. If u wanna change ur body shape then go for it but don’t do it for others. True love doesn’t see shapes, colour…,etc

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Then are women foolish that they have become insecure now!!!

Micklem @krish6

It has nothing to do with being insecure to do with foolish. It’s just coz of despicable people commenting about their body, they get dejected

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Again you are missing point you are thinking that women become insecure by any random people commenting over their bodies

Micklem @krish6

Not just random people. The sad thing is fellas who are known to the girls unknowingly or knowingly hurts them commenting about their body. We all need to stop bodyshaming

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insecurity means you are fearing of loosing something and mere comments won’t cause it because i know that people don’t become insure just like this they observe the situation/phenomenon and that makes them insecure

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Pranav @pranav888

Insecurity comes when you compare yourself with others!

Micklem @krish6

True words pranav.
Bill gates said " Don’t compare yourself with others if u are doing so u are insulting yourself"

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Yes but you start to compare with someone when you are in same competition hierarchy and there is something that you might loose…so what is at stake,what are they loosing!!!

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Pranav @pranav888

100%

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Pranav @pranav888

If you lose money, you can make money again, if you lose materialistic things then you can buy those things back! But by comparing yourself with others you are wasting time which you will never get back! Most importantly while comparing, if you lose yourself, the real you then it’s a disaster! You need to choose!

Even if you want to compare! Then compare yourself with yesterday and track your progress! And grow everyday!

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If you are asking about personal opinion then yes women are insecure but not only in western areas.
From my perspective
From the day I was born, I’m listening to this not only from relatives but my parents and other family members. It lead me to have depression in a young age. Continues bullying from family and the outer world. Even my own friends and classmates. This trauma made me insecure about my body. From this I got eating disorder. I only eat one meal a day or skip the whole. I try to eat less as I can. After that I went to a family event, some people were like give us some tips you have lost a lot of weight and some were like u were good before what happened to you all of sudden and give a sympathy look lol.

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