Well, I’ve mixed feelings. So there’s this guy who’s my childhood friend like I’ve known from past 15 years at least. Since the I always liked him, I had attraction before but then later we started talking regularly and then I fell in love with him ( this was 7-8 years ago). He got to a year later that I have feelings for me but then he tried to set me up with his friend and that was failed miserably. And then from past 2-3 years I’ve realised that he’s not into me. He ignores me, we don’t talk much now, and whenever he is in a relationship he doesn’t let me know idk why, but his last girlfriend messaged me after breakup that take care of him and all, and that was my first conversation with his girlfriend( this was around 1.5 years ago). Then 10 days before we met after an year and I asked him that his girlfriend broke up with him because of me? But then he said, you were not the reason but definitely she had problems with you. And he was missing her and watching my love missing his ex in front of me was like heartbreaking but I didn’t say anything to him. Now I’m not sure what should I do, I guess I still have feelings for him because I have never been into a relationship until now because I don’t find that I’ve with anyone what I’ve for him. But he’s simply not interested in me, even 15 mins before I called him because I was missing him and wanted to talk but he never picks up my calls. I don’t know what should I do.
May be you can ask him how does he feel about you?
What if that ruins our friendship?
KING @thevirtualking
Try someone who is interested in you. Clearly it’s looking as he is not interested and your expectations will hurt you eventually so it will be better if u treat him just as a friend and look for someone who can understand you better and love you. Feel comfortable to experience new things new people
I’m not able to move on.
KING @thevirtualking
See nothing is easy in the beginning. Trust me just move forward. If you need any help I am here. But more you stick to this more you will get hurt. Trust me and move ahead
Thank you so much for this advice, I’ll try to ignore him as much as I can.
KING @thevirtualking
No I am not telling you to ignore him. Just don’t have any expectations regarding him. Treat him as normal.
If u need any help my insta is the_virtual_king
I am a man of trust
Will try not to expect anything other that friendship, it will be hard but I’ll try to move on. Thanks for your advice.
KING @thevirtualking
It will be hard but you are a strong girl. I believe in you
Thanks, take care
KING @thevirtualking
You too take care stay safe. If you need to find me I will be on insta 24*7
Just leave and stop the contact with him coz it will hurt you more and more as you be in contact with him ; try talking to me new people and explore new people and try to divert yourself . We can talk more if you want because i have had this problem too
I have gone through same phase and it has affected me alot and now I don’t how to open up to others or afraid to love someone else.
If he or she doesn’t care about you than you should not msg . because you have a self respect and you should gave them to tore you apart. I think you will find someone who will genuinely love you and care for u.
The thing is that I guess I’ve stopped thinking that there’s anything such as love. I’ve always wanted a fairy tale love story but now I think that’s not for me.
I have always loved her more than anyone. Did everything what she liked but she never understood my feelings towards her and it just broke me apart seeing her with someone else.
Girl, if he liked you he would have made a move. And even after knowing you like if he is still ignoring you, then it is clear cut that he’s not worth your feelings… concentrate more on yourself and improve your confidence… the day you are so confident that your can do better tan him ,he’ll come to you. Guys usually don’t like to date girls that they think are easy to get. So play hard to get it… and also am telling you this because I’ve been in a similar situation. One you let him go and see from a different perspective you’ll realize that your are worth more and you yourself will laugh at your choice. Trust me
Well, can try that, thank you for your advice.
Dear u deserve much better …why go behind someone who doesn’t know your worth …try engaging yourself in studies or something which u really like…draw paint dance anything take ur mind off this … trust me dear it will get ok within few days … give ur heart a break
Just let him go. Find someone else who will love the hell out of you make you a better person. Love is not only about relationship it’s about letting go someone. You’re just not ready to except that he don’t feel for you. I was also in the same position but I found someone else and now I’m in a happy 4 year relationship ❤
Its a very long friendship so moving on will take time but u have to decide first u want him as frd or ur partner after that with all ur pro and cons whatever u decide u ask him how he felt about u and u know what to do after that
