Well I love somone alot I had put his needs first than mine. Thinking one day he would be mine. Whatโs funny is he likes some other girl who has a boyfriend and she still talks to him so nice giving him hopes and also telling him that she canโt cheat her bfโฆ thn why should she talk soo good and show love โฆ lol loyalty sucks in this generation I donโt care about thisโฆ but I hope he would come bak to me one dayโฆ
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You mean a girl who has a boyfriend shouldnโt talk to any other boy?
No not like thatโฆ encouraging someone when you know you have a bf and still you encourage some one who you know they like you โฆand give them hopes and tell them things like I love you โฆlol
She says I love you to him? ๐ ๐ Itโs way more complicated, I thought it to be simple
Yeahโฆ๐โฆits not about this but I have seen such things everywhere. Like wen their is no loyalty and effort with your partner it never last . You canโt blame relationships you need blame people
I wonder why donโt the person you love understands that sheโs not going to be his? Like she already cleared things with him so he needs to move on.
I think he might be thinking of moving on. You should give him time and when he will be ready you can approach him ๐
He feels one side love is best. He is not understanding its just temporary happiness when the loved one talk to you good. But once that loved person is gone then he may realise. โฆsee love , respect or priority should be equal weather itโs friendship or relationship it shouldnโt be one sided it will definitely hurt more one day.
And the worst part is he knows how much I love himโฆ one day he behaves that Iโm the imp person the other day I donโt existโฆhurts thoโฆhe wasnโt like this before
But it will hurt him. It pains alot when the person you love is not yours or rather cannot be yours. He will understand with time and I hope he understands soon, the earlier the better.
So does he considers you as his friend?
I hope so
He behaves like he loves me but say as friendโฆhe feels that relationships doesnโt last for him so he doesnโt wanna get commited to anyone he will definitely change this thought โฆ I feel to be with the right one you need to be with the wrong once first โฆbut one side will hurt him definitely. Either she will go or lev her bf and come to himโฆ๐คฃ
I donโt think she will leave his bf as she clearly said that she wonโt cheat her bf but who knows? ๐คทโโ๏ธ
Are you ok with him considering you as friend as behaving differently? It might be hurting you ig.
It does hurt meโฆ anyways Iโm the person who always gives alot no matter friendship or relationship so eventually it obvious I get hurt. Itโs fine ๐ letโs see what happens tho
He tells me itโs ok to express my love โฆ and I do its like when ever I open up I get hurt so I keep quite.
No dear. Be careful. Hurting yourself might make you loose your kindness. Make your side clear. Tell him that this thing is hurting you. See if he does anything. In a way you are also doing the same thing which he is doing hoping.
Itโs ok to express your love when in return the other person also has same feelings for you. Otherwise itโs a waste of time and energy.
He knows what hurts me โฆ I tell him not to open her msges from of meโฆ but yet he doesโฆ alot like thisโฆ so now Iโm just silentโฆ not gonna put any efforts
I think you should move on dear. Give him break, sometimes our absence makes the other person realise our true value.
Agreed
Perfectโฆthats why I stopped and let him be himself
She is just being a nice person whereas clearing her intention with your crush. She isnโt cheating.
Sorry to break it to you but you should think about it
Absolutely. She already cleared her side ๐ช
Doesnโt mean you tell I love you to him everyday even after you have bf rytโฆ ๐คฃ
Then she should be sicked to it โฆ not saying I love you everyday and giving hopes.
shiva kumar @shivavolley99
Dont expect someone or allow someone to come back and ruin your life
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Agreed. ๐ฅฐ