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Well I love somone alot I had put his needs first than mine. Thinking one day he would be mine. Whatโ€™s funny is he likes some other girl who has a boyfriend and she still talks to him so nice giving him hopes and also telling him that she canโ€™t cheat her bfโ€ฆ thn why should she talk soo good and show love โ€ฆ lol loyalty sucks in this generation I donโ€™t care about thisโ€ฆ but I hope he would come bak to me one dayโ€ฆ

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Anonymous
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You mean a girl who has a boyfriend shouldnโ€™t talk to any other boy?

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Anonymous
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No not like thatโ€ฆ encouraging someone when you know you have a bf and still you encourage some one who you know they like you โ€ฆand give them hopes and tell them things like I love you โ€ฆlol

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Anonymous
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She says I love you to him? ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…Itโ€™s way more complicated, I thought it to be simple

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Yeahโ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜โ€ฆits not about this but I have seen such things everywhere. Like wen their is no loyalty and effort with your partner it never last . You canโ€™t blame relationships you need blame people

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I wonder why donโ€™t the person you love understands that sheโ€™s not going to be his? Like she already cleared things with him so he needs to move on.
I think he might be thinking of moving on. You should give him time and when he will be ready you can approach him ๐Ÿ˜Š

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He feels one side love is best. He is not understanding its just temporary happiness when the loved one talk to you good. But once that loved person is gone then he may realise. โ€ฆsee love , respect or priority should be equal weather itโ€™s friendship or relationship it shouldnโ€™t be one sided it will definitely hurt more one day.

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And the worst part is he knows how much I love himโ€ฆ one day he behaves that Iโ€™m the imp person the other day I donโ€™t existโ€ฆhurts thoโ€ฆhe wasnโ€™t like this before

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Anonymous
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But it will hurt him. It pains alot when the person you love is not yours or rather cannot be yours. He will understand with time and I hope he understands soon, the earlier the better.

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Anonymous
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So does he considers you as his friend?

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Anonymous
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I hope so

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He behaves like he loves me but say as friendโ€ฆhe feels that relationships doesnโ€™t last for him so he doesnโ€™t wanna get commited to anyone he will definitely change this thought โ€ฆ I feel to be with the right one you need to be with the wrong once first โ€ฆbut one side will hurt him definitely. Either she will go or lev her bf and come to himโ€ฆ๐Ÿคฃ

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I donโ€™t think she will leave his bf as she clearly said that she wonโ€™t cheat her bf but who knows? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ
Are you ok with him considering you as friend as behaving differently? It might be hurting you ig.

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It does hurt meโ€ฆ anyways Iโ€™m the person who always gives alot no matter friendship or relationship so eventually it obvious I get hurt. Itโ€™s fine ๐Ÿ˜Š letโ€™s see what happens tho

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Anonymous
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He tells me itโ€™s ok to express my love โ€ฆ and I do its like when ever I open up I get hurt so I keep quite.

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Anonymous
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No dear. Be careful. Hurting yourself might make you loose your kindness. Make your side clear. Tell him that this thing is hurting you. See if he does anything. In a way you are also doing the same thing which he is doing hoping.

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Anonymous
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Itโ€™s ok to express your love when in return the other person also has same feelings for you. Otherwise itโ€™s a waste of time and energy.

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He knows what hurts me โ€ฆ I tell him not to open her msges from of meโ€ฆ but yet he doesโ€ฆ alot like thisโ€ฆ so now Iโ€™m just silentโ€ฆ not gonna put any efforts

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I think you should move on dear. Give him break, sometimes our absence makes the other person realise our true value.

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Agreed

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Anonymous
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Perfectโ€ฆthats why I stopped and let him be himself

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Anonymous
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She is just being a nice person whereas clearing her intention with your crush. She isnโ€™t cheating.
Sorry to break it to you but you should think about it

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Absolutely. She already cleared her side ๐Ÿ˜ช

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Anonymous
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Doesnโ€™t mean you tell I love you to him everyday even after you have bf rytโ€ฆ ๐Ÿคฃ

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Anonymous
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Then she should be sicked to it โ€ฆ not saying I love you everyday and giving hopes.

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Dont expect someone or allow someone to come back and ruin your life

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Anonymous
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Agreed. ๐Ÿฅฐ

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