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Anonymous

Well I am feeling sad. As I feel distant from my girlfriend. She says she loves me but I dnt feel like that. I feel like she is with me just because I love her. She rarely cares about me and my feelings. M so hurt but sometimes all of this feels like m too demanding or m overthinking… M SO MESSED UP.

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@sdfgh

Talk with her that u don’t feel loved…trust me communication really helps…having those uncomfortable talks really strengthen intimacy

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Anonymous

Once I told her and she replied so weirdly that she doesn’t have time for me now as she is focusing on her career. And I said too its okay you focus dnt worry . The thing is that she changed so much, once I said you have changed so much like your behaviour , attitude towards this relationship. And she replied she can’t think about other she is busy in her own world… Really I don’t have much to say as it is a long distance relationship. M just stretching and stretching my limit of patience and tolerance…

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@sdfgh

If it’s taking a toll on u n she’s not considering your emotions try taking a break from this

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Anonymous

Sometimes I feel like but I dnt know why I can’t .

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@sdfgh

Emotions are sloppy they tend to catch up with thing late what the brain already understands if you know u should go away from her then u should don’t let that toxic comfort make u stay in there where ur getting wayyy less than u deserve… after a while ull start loosing urself this comfort zone is fatal bro, don’t think twice over doing thebright thing even if it seems hard

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Anonymous

Slowly m detaching from her…Now I will focus on career…

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@sdfgh

Yess, keep going 💯

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Anonymous

Umm I’m a girl and I feel the guy I’m dating also feels like that but I don’t wanna initiate it cz I feel he will talk if there’s anything so really try talking to her and can you tell what makes you feel like she’s only with u cz she loves you…like what do u expect from her or what actions or inactions from her are making you feel so?

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Anonymous

I tried talking to her twice or thrice… most of the time she acts like as if m against her … I always say m not against her, it’s me and you against the problem , I keep asking her if I have misunderstood you tell me that i have misunderstood you… but dnt act like you dnt care taking someone for granted is the worst thing you can do to someone , and she is the only that means to me , I dnt have much friends just 3 or 4. They too live in different cities. I dnt expect much from her . A little effort to understand me thats it. I dnt have much needs just thora pyaar se baat toh karlo… it’s always her feelings her emotions … as if m not human , emotions toh hai hi nhi, aur ye sab bolu toh … I dnt deserve you bol degi…M not a fool who doesn’t understand fake love…I don’t even know if all this are result of my mistake…m so messed up

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Anonymous

Umhnn you seem to be mature if she’s really taking you for granted I wud say just end…cz u don’t deserve just thoda sa pyarrr c’mon don’t lower your standards…see it’s not that she is the wrong on or so but she has her priorities right n clear and so should you if she’s not ready for relationship to put in the efforts then she shudnt be in one and u shudnt expect that from her just let her be talk a timeout focus on urself make new friends network works on that goals see if she’s really in you she’ll come to u and if she doesn’t u know what to do. Take care

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Anonymous

That’s what I thought too…

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Anonymous

There can be 2 possibilities
1. She cares about you alot. But she is one who don’t shows.
There are people who don’t like to demonstrate their love each time. Insted she would ask you about if you had meals. Make sure that she talkes to you atleast once a day. So these are small ways that defines she is there for you and loves you.
2. Maybe she is pissed off with something you did and is not discussing it to avoid arguments and fights.
There can be chances that you are doing something again and again that she doesn’t like. This can be something she has told you before. So now since you are doing it again, she might feel that you dont care about her opinion and stopping you to do something is waste of time. Thus she is not discussing with you.
Hope u got some idea.
I wish all things are sorted between you two.
Take care✨💕

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Anonymous

Thank you for the advice… but I dnt think so either of them is the reason…I will give thought tho… jst hoping things to turn around… hope you have a great day ahead… take care

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