We had something between us,we slept with each other, we we're close emotionally,   we could share every little detail of our life with each other, still can but he got married 4 months back,  we still talk, still are kinda close to each other emotionally but I can't resist the urge of wanting him physically, I do still love him.. knowing that it's wrong, how do I ever get over him?

Eventually you will. It's just a matter of time

Breakup

hey guys!
i need your advice about my problem. so, my bf is from the state. we're in ldr almost 3 years and we didn't meet yet until now. it makes me crazy. due to covid, my country didn't allow visa for tourist or visitor as unmarried couple. at first, i don't think it's such a big deal. i searched many possible way we can meet. here's the option:
1) meet in turkey. because turkey already open the border for tourist and my country is got VOA from turkey. it'll easy for me and him.
2) he comes to indonesia using an agency. he only need to pay $250 for e-visa and already got sponsorship from the agency. 
3) we wait until indonesia officially open tourist visa, which is impossible for now. i believe they'll open normally at the end of 2022.
i believe the option 2 is the best way. but he always make an excuse about this and that. and i'm the only one who search about that info. i feel that he's not serious with me. what should i do? i'm feds up

Long Distance Relationship

Today has been a rollercoaster ride for my emotions.. 
In a relationship for few months.. Got together just for some intimacy and sex
Relationship has been on and off since some time now
He is in other country for job now
Spent last month fighting
He has been loving and attentive since a week now.. Not sure if he loves me
Keep questioning his behavior and cause fights..  My insecurity causes fights
Need some guidance

Anxiety

Ok so I am gonna just open up..
I had a guy friend..let's call him K
We came in contact through a tuition teacher like she was in some corona situation and she gave me this guy's contact..
We started to talk..
Like starting we talked all related to studies as he was appointed to teach me computer science for some time
But then all things changed we talked on random topics for 2 hours continuesly ..
We had already cleared that I had a bf so we can be close friends..
He is 1 year older than me..We talked everyday from February this all started.. like we shared everything like he always asked to me to what to wear in a function to every little thing to talking how the whole day was.. we used to find hard to find topics to talk... like 2 hours call and 1 hour chats and all
Our tuitions started from 10 days..
But now you know what he replies my texts after 9-10 hours he doesn't answer my calls..he says I am busy..he talks to every girl in tuitions except me
I asked him that is he ignoring me..he says no..
Like I know he is ignoring me..
He is changed..I can't do anything..
I message him everytime he replies after many hours with just okay or hmm..
Please please tell me what should I do 😭🥺😭🥺
Should I leave him or continue messaging him..
I just can't get him out of my mind..
Please help me

Depression

I drove for 12 hours to pick up a custom made piñata for my boyfriend for his birthday (which he’s never had one growing up) and he says I don’t go above and beyond for him. I’m feel like he’s being greedy and ungrateful. Am I correct?

Anger Issues

So, I have been friends with my ex for the past 7 years, the first 2 of which we were together. However, after we met each other 3 years back we didn't try to make things happen and sustained our friendship. He was moving to a different city for studies and the thought of a  long distance was anorexic to me in the first year of college. He came back after his first semester to his parent's and we met again at a friend's place. He held my hand, kissed my forehead and told me he still "missed me" and had feelings for him. I comforted him, however, didn't reciprocate as I was dating someone then. He waited for me two years after that, the entire time we were close knit but just as friends. However, as the distance grew I started recognising all the residual feelings from a childhood love story. But, by the time I took charge of them, he was already with someone else. Nevertheless, I decided to tell him about my feelings. At first, he comforted me saying that he would never replace me and that I mean a lot to him, I'm important and our bond is something more than friendship, has always been. However, gradually when I kept pestering him about it, he told me he wanted to have a future with the girl he is currently dating and consequently we both called it quits on our friendship. Do you think he will come back to me? I mean 7 years is something right? Did I lose my soulmate? 

Friends

Just wanted to get people's say as to what I did was right or not. There was this guy I recently started talking to. We both actually have a common friend that's how we connected. I secretly liked him and just wanted to see if things would go anywhere. We just had normal talks, even planned to meet this weekend. I got to know from our common friend that he was actually talking to another girl over tinder a lot and that they were talking on video call n stuff daily. I saw a two timing guy, even though we didn't exactly go towards the path of any kind of commitments, he always used to say how excited he was for "the day" to meet me. I didn't say anything just deleted all the texts and unfollowed him. My thoughts here were I don't want to get associated with a toxic guy like him and I can't allow myself to be someone's number 2.

Confusion

I had a friend (still have maybe). Who is a muslim, he was a nice person when we met. He felt secular, but idk why he seems to be radicalised now. He just hate the govt and often abuse them. He stands for Palestine and doesn’t utter a word for Afghanistan. 
He anyhow tries to bring religion into everything we talk about and try to convince others that Islam is the greatest religion. His social media posts are full in support of people like Aafia Siddiqui, he call Israel a terrorist country (to those of you with no geo political knowledge, Israel stands by India over Pakistan and do help us a lot). 

He always vent out hate on social media and everything he has to do is for his religion. 

He has said those things which hurts me, he said that I wouldn’t do baraat because it is of Indian culture, “hamare me aisa nahi hota” and what not.

I enjoyed being friends with him and idk what to do now.


Conflict

I am in a long distance relationship from 6 years now. We're planning to marry but his parents are not agreeing to the fact that we're perfect for each other also they believe in caste like it's the only thing that matters to live in a society. Initially, my parents were also against our marriage but they understand my love for him but now the boy and his parents both agreeing to the fact that we should go for court marriage but I want to do it the Indian way. Not the levish one but atleast with all rituals.

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