We broke up a week ago, but as we were on okayish terms . Yesterday on her birthday I gave her the most wonderful gift ever (mainly craft) (her words) . She cried to the fact that me (her ex)  gave her a special gift while none of her bestfrnds/frnds didn't gave anything n just contributed 20rs for a cake. Anyways after that I hugged and gave her affection n one thing led to another we booked up. But the problem is that she felt distant all this time. We haven't talked about so Im still confused what are we now... 

3am Thoughts

There’s this girl that I love and know for a fact I want to spend my life with, but we had to end things because the distance (on account of my military life) was too much for her to handle and made her unsure of what she wants. I’m honestly hurting deeply right now, we still talk albeit less and she’s expressed she wants to see me when I come back home and that she misses me, but she has a very busy work schedule as she’s a successful dog groomer and sometimes I’ll message her and see no reply for days even when she’ll look at things I post on my story. Sometimes I can’t help but feel like I’m just being strung along and I hate it, because I love her more than anything and I’ve turned down numerous peoples affections because I only want her in my life. It’s stressful, she’ll say things and ask me for things sometimes like sleeping on call with me, but then we’ll go for periods of time without interaction and I don’t want to be the one initiating all the time either because there should be a balance :/ I’m sure of her, but I feel like she isn’t sure of me and it’s messing with my head because I don’t know if I should just give her time and wait it out. 

Confusion

So there was/is a girl I like. We used to talk for hours but then suddenly she stopped replying. And slowly we were only far acquaintances. I also gave up and moved forward. Few months forward she told me she is gonna move to my university and now wants me to take care of her there. I don't know what to do. I used to like her but I was severely hurt when we stopped talking. Now I don't even wanna see her face but there is a part of me who is also happy. I am really confused.

One Sided Love

I want to have a GF during final term : )

LGBTQ

So its been now going to be a year with her we started as friends now we are closer then that things have got so far we not in a relationship but we should be in one so here the problem is when i ask her about this that what is your feelings for me then she don’t tell she says that im not confirmed (ik she knows deep down that she wants me but) but she do all the things which a couple do like a relationship she want my attention she wants to order me she wants to do everything with me ik she has feelings for me but i want to be sure and know that yes she loves me too just like me loves her can anyone tell that how can i like know and how can i be sure like I wanted to know that is these things work like this?? This relationship thing 

Life

Hi,
I recently broke up with my gf. I believed she was cheating on me and I never felt respected. She was always secretive for example, in the 2 years that we dated I had never even seen the home wallpaper of her iphone. She would always be talking to her ex saying that they have a special bond.  She never showed any affection outside the bedroom(she was very loving and caring when we were alone but still secretive and shady about her iphone).

1 year into this and  I had to move to a different city for work( her ex also lived there). I wanted her to visit me but everytime she would say that it is impossible for her to come and everytime I had to travel to her city. Fast forward 1.5 years and it was my birthday she wished me around 10pm and went to sleep. I mean it's not a big deal. But a month later, it was her ex's birthday. She came to that city to surprise him. We had a huge fight but like everytime I ended up saying sorry.She said that it was a surprise for me as well. She spent the whole day with her ex. She only met me at 2 in the morning and I dropped her off at the airport. 

All this led me to breakup with her.  Now, she is back with her ex. The thing that hurts the most is that she has moved on so fast and I am the one who is still stuck and in love with her. She acts like I am the villain in this story. When I tell her how can she move on so fast, she says I am the one who broke up with her ...what do I want. She says that she is finally happy now and i am being toxic. She says she still wants to be friends.

Now was I crazy to have broken up with her? Was I paranoid? Am I actually the villain in this story?
 How long wil it take to move on from her? It's been 2 month and it keeps getting worse. I can't sleep, I can't work. All I think about is her. 

I feel like i was just a fling for her. She was still in love with her ex . That's why she they got together as soon as we broke up. But if I was just a fling why say I love you to me? 

Please help me. Tell me I am not being paranoid. 


Cheating

I am/was dating this girl for 2 years and 2 years of friendship before that. We were in long distance, things started getting a bit boring. But she suddenly out of nowhere decided to end things without even giving a single chance to mend things. I have been trying to convince her for a chance but she is not ready to listen. She asked to stay friends and she said she will use that time to clear her mind. I dont think friendship thing can work, I dont want to get friendzoned, so I asked her we can talk once she clears her head. Its been 5 days she hasnt sent a single message. I know she loves me but she is not feeling that much or something. I am getting mad what should i do? All I wanted is a chance to mend things. 

Love

She's so cool.. She's so nice

Out of 10 I'll give her 9.

Dedicated to a girl members.. 💕🙈👏

Affirmations

I feel used when my ex told me she was only attached to me bcoz her bestf(with which she hooked up) and her had a fight n they weren't talking. After some time he said sorry n after that we started dating. But anyways after our first big fight she directly turned to him and vcalled him and just cried when he said tell me what's wrong. N she called me insecure n said she didn't owe me explanation for this. We broke up last month she's returned to him again and maybe she loves him.  I feel used as a reboubd

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