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Was body shamed all my life , my own sister wasn’t comfortable when I showed up when her friends came home . My best friend’s girlfriend laughed at me the first time we met. By the time I turned 21 I realised that people got repelled by how I looked. Never had the confidence to make friends with the anyone, let alone the opposite sex. Is it a crime to not look attractive? How come nobody tried looking beyond my face to see the person in me , I so wish I get an attractive body if I ever happen to be born again

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Anonymous

Don’t think like that! You are pretty as how you are now.
Can we be friends? If you don’t mind

b

Thank you, sure would like to make new friends

Anonymous

Yeah me too dude!
Are you comfy with talking outside?

Anonymous

That’s how you have made up your thoughts just because of some few recent people body shaming you
That’s not what actually happens

b

I’m sure there are a lot of them who don’t mistreat people for how they look. But being laughed at every other day and to be called names does make one feel negative about one’s self

Anonymous

Dude j can just trust you but you have to be away from negative people
I can bet that they are made up of shitty minds

Anonymous

That’s how you see yourself!
Just tell yourself that you look the best you’re the most amazing person on the earth
Work on your body… take care of it… workout and taadaa…you look amazing and nice
But will it really make you happy? Because now people are just nicer to you because you look good? Probably not right? So dude just accept the way you are and for the people who let you down… just think that they never deserved you and you shouldn’t waste your energy on them
But yaa…if you want to look good for yourself… work out…work hard…and yaa…when you have great physique it’ll boost your confirmation!
And you know in today’s World of instagram and social media you’re judged by the way you look but there are still some poeple who don’t…so don’t be afraid to make new friend…maybe you’ll find someone good and also when someone still shame you for looks just use that anger on yourself… like convert that anger into motivation
I guess I typed so much in flow… ssry !
Idk where this whole thing went…I hope this helped you in any way!

b

Thank you so much, made a lot of sense

Anonymous

Don’t wish for an amazing body
You still can get it
You’re just 21,hit the damn gym Make gym your best friend
Trust me once you start seeing the results it’s gonna be additive to work out
All the very best👍🏻

b

Thanks