Very low😔so many negative thoughts and fear are consuming my mind. I lost my confidence. I want to apply to the job but due to lack of confidence I am hesisating to apply. Some past memories are disturbing me. Someone did wrong to me. But I am unable to take my stand against it, because I don’t want to loose that person. I am very confused regarding to our relationship. I want to speak for myself. I want to crack the interview and get the job.But I am looser. I know I will not be able to pass interview. As my English is not to fluent.
Hello,
Pls remember one thing
N remind urself daily
“YOU ARENOT A LOOSER”
Friend pls keep faith in urself and your abilities
See I dnt deny
That flueny in English is imp to crack several interviews but it is not the only thing considered by interviewers.
Your knowledge
Your confidence
Your body language
Your attitude all are given emphasis…
See interviewers are also humans
They too might be having some or other limitation or weakness
Because ultimately nobody is perfect
In past they too have sat in ur place n got nervous…
If you want to crack your interview
Pls be as confident as possible…
N let me also tell u
God forbid if you are unable to crack this interview
Remember that there is other interview .
Friend,
If one door closes
Knock at other door…
Your sincerity
Your honesty
Your courteous approach can all get you job…
It is obvious to feel nervous before giving interview
But let not this nervousness reflect …
Smile
And answer…
N friend
If someone has done something wrong
N you feel it shouldnot be forgiven
Pls dnt forgive
Whatever causes u pain n hurt
Shouldnot be a part of your life…
Dnt punish urself for somebody else’s mistakes
Also very calmly think over
Is your life better with or without that someone…
Only you can answer n decide
All the very best to you…
You can crack your interview
Start taking baby steps towards ur aims n goals
More power to you.
Stay strong
Stay calm
“Kar Har Maidan Fateh”
You may listen to some motivational speeches or somgs which that works for you…
Pls dnt permit your past to shape your future.
Good luck…
Take care.
@kusum thank you so much for your advices and the way you explained the solution for my problems is very motivated. I am grateful that you replied to my post:-)
All the very best to you.
Pratyush @pratyush21
Well,
Hey, first of all, before you read this message, please keep away your thoughts and exams and all aside and read it.
Life is very Uncertain. No one knows what happens when. You might have read stories of a Rickshaw person getting through IAS, whereas a Tea Seller becoming PM. Do you think they reached here without failures? When you couldn’t make it through one of the exams, why are you feeling like the test is going to decide your fate? Always learn from your mistakes. You have taken such a bold decision of quitting job and trying for some better career options. You know how much proud your parents will be, that their kid is able to take decision on what is good for him and what is not. Remember, a kid is never a burden for their parents. You are one of the best gifts that ever happened to them. Don’t make them upset about you. Have your food and don’t think so deeply. What would happen when you don’t eat? Will it make you succeed? No, it will only keep on inking your mind that you are guilty.
Put all this trash out of your mind, and focus what you have started. Don’t give a thought about anything else, else you know you would be worried and you may fail just because you are concentrating on the things that really aren’t.
Go ahead, do what you Love and make your parents proud.
Best of Luck
