Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

UGHHH I JUST WROTE LIKE 5 PARAGRAPHS OF WHAT I WAS GOING TO VENT ABOUT, THEN MY PLATFORM CRASHED. 😭

Anyway, there’s this girl at my school, we’ll call this girl nine. Nine and I used to be best friends, however, one day, nine started acting really weird. I didn’t know this until after but she’d been telling everybody I knew that I was a horrible person and that I didn’t deserve to be friends with them. little bit of context; I didn’t know anything that she was talking about. She claimed that I did a lot of stuff that I didn’t do. (Slut shaming, verbally attacking, gaslighting etc.) This is all bullshit btw. My friends immediately came to me and told me what was going on, and I was really confused. Me and her had been friends for a year or so before this happened, and it was very sudden, (I had seen her and was joking around and being friendly the day before this happened) and then she hated everything about me. I hate conflict so I texted her and asked if I could call her after I get home from school. Nine said “no, your going to want to wait to talk to me so I can explain how mad I am at YOUR friends” (context: they were her friends too.) she didn’t explain that she was mad at me until later. She made it seem like it was only my friends. I was getting irritated because she was refusing to tell me what was going on, and why so many people were telling me that she hated me. I asked her multiple times to please just tell me what was going on, sooner then she intended to tell me. (I know this was rude, but she kept bringing up how shocked I was going to be, and that she had been upset at my friends for months before saying anything) and I have anxiety. And she kept responding with “we have to do this in person, you need to see how mad I am at you and your friends” and “your going to want to sit down for this, it’s really going to surprise you” and it was starting to piss me off. She was making this a huge deal by telling everyone else that she was mad at me and why, but she won’t tell me. I already knew that she was planning to ditch the whole friend group (found out because a dear friend told me that nine was blabbering on about me in class) so I got upset and told her that I have heard worse news than whatever she had to tell me, and that I didn’t understand why she had to make it such a huge deal when she could have just told me and it be over with. She proceeded to tell me that I was a horrible person, that I slut shamed her when I met her (which is impossible because I had a crush on her when we first met) bringing up stuff about something my boyfriend did at homecoming (four months before this) that she was upset about (he didn’t do anything wrong, me and him made a joke about how cute nine and her friend would be as a couple (who nine had a crush on)) and my boyfriend apologized profusely (as did I) and nine said she wasn’t upset about it) and then about how I never stand up for her (which is bullshit, I yelled at anyone who was rude to her, or that looked at her wrong) and a bunch of other unrelevent stuff. All I said to the long text she sent me ( which made me cry almost immediately) was that she had no idea how upset she had just made me and that we weren’t friends anymore (this was really hard for me, I have problems with trusting people and I trusted her more then anyone) I then left it alone, a friend of Nine and I showed me a group chat that Nine had made a few weeks before anything happened between me and nine saying how horrible I am, and a bunch of other shit, basically only to tell people that i was “so mean to her” and then I saw it. A TikTok. Nine had made a TikTok showing the texts she sent me (but not the ones I sent her, how convenient) and posted it. (She has around 5K followers, so I was really upset about this. She took it down eventually, along with any TikTok she had that had me in it) I then sent her this: “Why did you tell everyone else what was going between us and the problems you had with me before you even told me? Why didn’t you tell me what was happening before you told everyone else? We could have had a talk about this and now it’s horrible. I hate everything that’s going on. Idk why this has become such a big thing. I never called you a slut. I saw that TikTok video you made of our argument and I don’t appreciate it. I think we still need to talk. Idk how any of this even happened? I thought we were fine, I never meant to make you upset or feel bad or hurt your feelings, we talked about the joke thing at homecoming and after you said that you didn’t appreciate it, and that you were upset because your crush was upset. I just wish you didn’t tell everyone else. Multiple people have come forward to tell me that they knew that you were upset at me and that you told them something.
I know you told a lot of people about our problems. I just don’t understand what happened, I thought that the day before this happened we were fine? I just want to know what led you to freak out about all this.

We need to talk asap. “

To which she never responded. Nine is a very political person (I won’t get into that too much) but she apparently found out that I was a democrat and decided she hated that, which is one of the reasons she decided to tell people she was going to jump me at school. Nine is a very violent person, and honestly scares me a bit, she never did end up jumping me (I told the school) but now she goes around dressing skimpy and glaring at me and talking crap about me whenever she wants, what do I do to stop this?
Also, she keeps telling people about the few fights that me and my boyfriend have had, and how he almost got me pregnant, my boyfriend is livid. As am I, I hate conflict and all of this has been really hard on me.

Sorry it was so long, but thank you for reading this all.