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@dorayaki

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I am not feeling really well today… my parents kind of threatened me to beat me up till I get bruises on all my body and made me bleed a couple of times… They don’t believe me about my anxiety and think I am doing it all for attention. When I cut myself, my mother found out and told me if I ever do it again, she will check my body, all naked, and that I will face some consequences which makes me really scared. They don’t respect my boundaries and even through all that, I still love them. I honestly don’t know what to do, and venting out here is the only thing I can think of right now.
I would really appreciate it if some of you drop some positive quotes below. >:)
Thank you for reading this far.

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@mysoul

You are born as human being and you should love it and thank the god and parents for giving such a beautiful life. Just look at your childhood photos that were taken when you are at age 1 to 5yrs. Nothing changed except you grown up and you started thinking a lot and your brain is seeking many things.

Just watch your thoughts and stop all those non-sense things that are making you upset and creating boundaries between you and parents. With your grown up mind, you should convey politely, that makes them understand. When you can’t make them understand then whom you will?

At the same time, You need to think and understand what your parents thinking about you and your future.

Watch your thoughts and remove all negative and react to only positive thoughts.

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@queenn

I won’t say any quotes you know why?
Because when a person is suffering anyways they really don’t get the meaning of any quotes…
The real question is what makes you anxious mate?
Why you are cutting yourself?
Any reason or any situation
In which you feel anxious…
Im here for you so say what you feel…what hurts you everything…i Can’t promise anything but i will be the best listner…you are not alone okay?

Revati @revati_123

hey,
hope you and your family are doing well!
I think right now the best thing to do is trying to talk with one of your parents. see if they can understand it when you try explaining things to them. try telling them that you will never hurt yourself if they think it’s for attention but it actually is not for the attention it is because of other things. try doing this with one parent, not with both of them together. give it a last try, if it’s still not working then that’s a sign for you that you need to stop telling them things. I am not saying cut off from them completely but tell them only those things that they need to know, don’t give them details about your life because if you do so they might not understand why you have taken a certain step and they might end up criticizing you.
is it possible for you to get in touch with a psychologist by any chance? if so, please find a good therapist and start your therapy, even if your parents don’t know about your therapy sessions it’s okay. that’s going to be for your good, and if they cannot understand that, that’s okay too.
try to focus on what you can do for yourself to get yourself out of this situation rather than focusing on what they are doing or not doing as parents for you. if they are with you on this journey, great if not then that’s okay too, try keeping this attitude otherwise it will be difficult for you to stop thinking about how their behaviour is affecting you.
this isn’t easy, I know but honey this is important for you! FOR YOUR OWN GOOD!
I am glad that you are able to understand what the problem is and you are able to talk to people about it…the situation can still be managed, if the correct steps are taken. just remember that if you don’t get the support of your parents you have friends here who will support you!

hope this helps you.
lots of love, light, and strength to you!❤️✨

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