Too anxious and depressed about my decision over saying yes for marriage, now have two option either pretending okay till marriage or calling it off by saying no, but don’t want to hurt anyone, so the best option is in front of me is to die, don’t know what to do, because i am keep thinking that after marriage her life will be destroyed becoz I am kind of facing depression, don’t know what to do
Hey, calm down, u still there? Okay, so first are you forced to marry someone and does that someone agree to it( i mean does she have feelings for you) 2) if she doesn;t, then if you call it off there will be no great tragedy, 3) again, you can’t say no because it is a long-standing agreement? and if none of the above fits, personally if you get depressed for that reason you should say no, if that will solve the case, but please don’t take your life, there will be a way out) you may not want to believe it but everything will be fine, it is your life you ust choose) have a wonderful day!
woah woah calm down
it is not the end of the world
i mean it might be… keep that aside
now see if u are compatible with her(behaviour, income…) i meann all of these (i have an aunt who is in hell after marrying. her husband’s attitude is that of what relatives talk not his decision )
if after checking these things the answer is compatible then go ahead
if u are still uncomfortable the say no( it is your life not your parents or your relatives)
make your decision
All the best
