Told my boyfriend of 7 months how I feel about him after we got back from a 6 day beach vacation together and he ghosted me . I felt such a connection with him that I was sure he felt the same and now I don’t understand why he ran away . It’s been a week with no contact and it’s hurting my heart so bad. He was my best friend and in my heart I felt like he was the best thing I ever had . I’m crying everyday on the way home from work , can’t sleep , can’t eat. Idk what’s wrong with me that I am letting this affect me this way . It’s not something I can just turn off. You can’t just unlove someone . He was my first love when I was 17 and a junior in high school now fast forward 17 years later we are both 34 and I just feel like this whole this is fucking stupid . I feel stupid for falling in love again and letting myself break my own heart.
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That’s okay honey, it’s not stupid of you to love him. It’s okay to cry. Just hold on.
Wait so you liked him 17 years ago and only dated 7 months ago, correct? I just wanna clarify. Maybe he got spooked, he thought that it was more of a casual thing and instead you told him your feelings and he needs time to process that. I say give him some more time - and if he doesn’t respond to you after a certain time than maybe he’s not interested in anything serious with you. I know it hurts — but it’s better to have all the chips on the table now instead of wasting time on someone that care about you the same way.
No we dated for 2 years when we were 17 and we broke up because he wasn’t ready for a long distance relationship. His family moved to another state and he went with them . Didn’t see him again until 7 months ago. And that’s when we started a relationship again .
