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DollyDrama @dollydrama

Today was a pretty good day until J (my bf) ruined it. I got a good job offer, I was feeling pretty good about myself for once.

I had a baby 3 months ago and I have had postpartum depression REALLY bad. So self esteem is in the toilet. But today I felt good.

Then I asked if J if we could do something fun to celebrate and he freaked out on me. Apparently I’m the most selfish person in the world, can’t I see he’s tired today, etc etc. it’s almost like he’s mad at me for getting a job.

Idk. I wish he would disappear.

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Anonymous

This is a terrible thing for him to say. It’s incredibly selfish and sexist on his part. I am so happy for you and want to congratulate you for your success. I would suggest you calmly talk to him and explain the situation and hear him out. If it doesn’t work, I would consider taking more drastic steps even though I do realise that it is easier said than done. I hope that everything works out for you!

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DollyDrama @dollydrama

No matter how I try to address it he always reacts the same way. Just makes it worse.

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Congratulations and celebrations. 💃🤝
You deserved and worked for it and you landed into one. All the best!🌻

Also, you should disappear or make him disappear and talk to him about what’s all this and why can’t he be happy for you, and maybe you need to think about where your relationship is going. 💙

@triumphant_wire

Oh definitely,a big no. I was dating this guy who used to be my husband once. My bad I never saw the red flags ,All the controlling freak he is. Now we have a 1 yr old daughter.Its worsened.He thinks I shouldn’t be complaining and look after the baby,we have no life whatsoever. Do not take this lightly,it’s better to get the toxic one outta ur life than letting ur life become one.

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