Today my teacher called my mom about my attendance and un-handed assignments, and honestly school is stressing me out, it gave me anxiety I don’t know how to handle it. I can’t talk to anyone, I’m like trapped where I feel like I’m being forced to do stuff here and there. I can’t talk to my mom about this, because she had so much hope in me that I will be a good student and sh!t like that, but it seems like she’s losing it when she’s starting to get phone calls and messages from my teachers, and the fact that when I am trying to focus on school with the help of my sister, it seems like she doubted that I can start focusing on my school, and I didn’t know how to react anymore I’m hurt and it just broke all of my hopes for school. And I also have bigger dreams, and I’m passionate about it and I’ve talked about it to my mom (not rlly often) but it’s either I don’t know how to make it obvious that school isn’t helping me with this dream or my mom is oblivious. I just feel like I need to let this out, and it helps a bit but if I can talk about this to my mom or my dad face to face I’d feel like the weights on my shoulder is lifted, I would feel like millions of weights is gone and is replaced with reliefs.
(Any suggestions on what I should do?)
nothing prolly @idc
hey, ive been through the very same situation. don’t worry. your parents will love you the very same, and your grades and stuff wouldn’t really make a difference. yeah, they might feel bad that you’re not doing good with your studies. go talk to your mom, sit down and tell her that this is all stressing you out and discuss as to what you can do to cut down that stress and focus on studies. don’t worry one day youll look back and laugh at this situation. first discuss and get rid of that stress and then formulate plans as to how you can focus well on your studies. i wish you best of luck for all your future endeavors<3
Hey I am also a student and i always had this feeling that i dont fit in at school, not just because of the lack of any living breathing friends or the stress of homework and exams, but because I didnt find it helpful. At all. I also know how it feels to have all the walls close in on you because you feel like you are disappointing the people who are counting on you for more. But if your school isnt giving you what you need to fulfil your dreams, then your passion lies elsewhere. If you have a goal, then you can work out a way to get there. But you shouldnt have to do that alone. You should sit down with your parents and talk to them. Tell them what you want to do in life and how the current situation isnt helping. Make them listen to you. I am sure they will understand and even if they dont, at least they will know. That should ease some of the weight you are so desperate to get rid off.
I am sorry if i couldnt help. I hope things work out for you.
Hey bud, just make sure school is just a stage, not the end everyone gets scolded once and then, but never take them way too seriously they just wanna make their results, and right now every school is pressurizing the parents only so don’t take it that seriously and it’s not bad to be an avg student.
I left my school after 10th and at that time I had somehow managed to get 84% after that I got into foundation classes and after 3-4 months, I realized that I’ll not be able to coupe with both my board’s exams as well as Jee one at the same time.
So, I said to my parents pretty frankly that I want to leave that and do open schooling while focusing on my board exams so I can manage to pass my boards at least.
And guess what I quit the foundation classes & self-studied and got 67%, I know that’s way too low, but you know more than 50% of students studying in that foundation class failed in one subject or another…
Right now I’m in my pre-final year of BTech with an 80% avg…
So, the point is if u think u can’t hold it anymore just speak about it & don’t choose after school career option in any kind of pressure…
