Himanshu @himanshujangra
Today my father beat me a lot after drinking alcoholβ¦ I was feeling very restless so I sat alone in the room and started studying, then he came after drinking alcohol and started beating me. They hit me so hard that I got bruises somewhere on my bodyβ¦ π₯Ίπ
Does this happen often? Whatβs your age?
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Yes 2 or 3 times a weekβ¦ My age is 21β¦
Itβs something really serious. You need to speak about this to your parents. Did you never try to confront your father after he is out of the drunk state?
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Bhai mai unse kabhi khul ke baat kr hi nhi pataβ¦ Jo insan nashe mei itna marta haiβ¦ Hosh mei hoga to pta nhi kitna maregaβ¦ π₯Ίππ
Come on!! Aise hamesha sehen karna possible thodi na hai!! You probably need to earn enough for yourself first and then confront him. Taaki ghar se bahar nikalwa bhi de to koi problem na ho. Jokes aside, donβt take his actions lightly. Aaj he is hitting you, tomorrow at your position it might be your mother and then it might be your wife.
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Bhai mai govt officer huβ¦ Gram Sachivβ¦ Fir bhi papa marte haiβ¦ Mummy ki traf dekhta hu unhe kuch kah nhi pataβ¦ Isiliye sab chup chap sahan krleta huβ¦ Transfer ke liye head ko letter to bheja haiβ¦ Dekho ab kab transfer milegaβ¦ ππ
You shouldnβt rely on the thought ki transfer mile uske baad shift honge. Since I have read ki your mom is also not happy with him. So better hoga if you confront your dad and stay separate. Otherwise your family will be nothing but a toxic family.
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Bhai aaj ki kahani nhi haiβ¦ Unhonee har birthday pe mara haiβ¦ π abhi 4 din phle mera birthday tha or unhone bahot rulaya π₯Ί
Pehli baat is you need to understand ki you arenβt a baccha!! You earn also. So whatβs stopping you from confronting? And you could even threaten him. Why are you so scared of him? If he does something that he shouldnβt then threaten him or leave your home.
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Pta nhi bhai sahab kya kruβ¦ Bahot hi jyada uljha hua huβ¦ Bahot pareshaan hu mn krta hai apne aap ko hi marluβ¦ π
Aise hath pe hath rakhkar baithe rehna to sahi nhi hai
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Kuch smjh nhi aa rha bhai sahab mujhe. π
I hope time heals everything
Himanshu @himanshujangra
I hope so ye din jaldi aajaye bhai sahab
π
Donβt expect miracles. You yourself have to take action.
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Haa bhai sahabβ¦
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Haa kai baar to unko dhakka marke bhagna pdta hai mujheβ¦ π
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Mummy ko pahle hi problem hai sisterβ¦ To mai unhe kuch nhi btataβ¦ Or mujhe khud bahut problem haiβ¦ Jaise chest infection, liver infection, intestines infection, Anxiety or panic disorder, migraine, Bone Cervicalβ¦ Fir bhi papa jara bhi nhi sochteβ¦ ππ₯Ί
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Sister kya baat karu aise insan seβ¦ Jo nashe mei itna marta haiβ¦ To socho hosh mei hoga to kitna marega mujheβ¦Isiliye kuch nhi bolta unhe sister. ππ₯Ί
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Mummy ke sath to unhone or bhi bura kiya sisterβ¦ Meri mom ke hote huye bhi unhone affair kiya or uske sath physical relation banayaβ¦Jab mummy ko pta laga in sab ka to mummy ne papa se baat krna band krdiya or mummy depression mei chali gaiβ¦ Or unhone pahle Bahut problem haiβ¦
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Mai government officer hu sisterβ¦ Gram sachiv hu sisterβ¦ Par mummy ghar se jane ko tyar nhiβ¦ Bs apne aap ko kamre mei band rkhti hai jati bhi nhi to kaise jau unke bina kahiβ¦ π
Alana @selenophile_013
Oh my god. I canβt believe such people still exist, WB your mother? doesnβt she say something to him?
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Meri mummy unse baat nhi krti sisterβ¦ Meri mom ke alawa bhi unka affair tha jb mummy ko pta laga to unhone papa se baat krna band krdiya. Or mummy depression mei chali gaiβ¦ Or unhe or bhi problem hai sisterβ¦ Isiliye unhe kuch nhi kahtaβ¦ π₯Ίπ
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Hey !!
I never knew this shit is happening in ur lifeβ¦
U can share more
We will try to find a solution
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Koi solution nhi hai buddyβ¦ Mai bs apne transfer ka wait krr rha hu bs vo jaldi mil jayeβ¦
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But it will take a long time dude
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Ha buddyβ¦ π
My Dad is an alcoholic too. He beat me too once, but I see it happening more so often with my mom and my sister.
I am very unattached to him and to be honest, If your father only beats you when he is drunk, it means he canβt do that sober. Alcohol is liquid courage and it takes away all that nervousness.
So my suggestion is, hold your ground, Confront your dad. Kya hoga, maarte hi toh aa Rahe Hai, aur maar lenge. Itni maar khaayi hai. Phir, you tell him that you wonβt stand for this beating anymore. He doesnβt value you, and you need to make him do that. Hold on to your ground
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Dar lagta hai sister Bahotβ¦ Jo nashe mei itna mar sakta hai voo hosh mei kitna maregaβ¦ Kahi ve mummy ko nuksan na pahocha deβ¦ π