Today my ex bf sanju message me and said that he wants to be in relationship again. As I know his father died last week  I told him to be just friend but he clearly said he don't play this hide and seek he wants only relationship but i am already in relationship with his friend for 8mnth whose name is Abhi. I told abhi everything  he said If
you have any feelings for him go back. 
Abhi  helped me in study as we both are preparing for job.  Sanju helped and support me a lot he always said that i am his life his weakness . I don't decide What should I do? If I leave abhi i will lost my study partner. If I leave sanju he will get hurt as he is very sensitive and also in this situation I don't want to leave him alone. Sanju needs my support  . And for my better career I need abhi's help. Please suggest me the right things to do. 

First take time for yourself and think with whom you are most comfortable with ,then later sit together and clearly explain the person you wanna choose and the other person the support or help you weanna give or take

Lonely

He's not picking up my call and being distant since we started dating and it's fresh, it's just been a week, i asked him today does he have someone in his mind or is something bothering him and he said he'll explain later (texted today evening) i called him at 10pm, he cuts the call puts up a msg I'll call you right back, called him at 1am no response, y don't he tell off which is running in his mind, this is really bothering me nd making me more anxious, i don't want to feel this way, in what other way can i reach him, don't advice me to wait for his call after reading this.

Anxiety

Well where do I start? My entire life became dark and twisted in the span of 3 years... I got married it was arranged marriage in 2019 and my husband was abusive in all forms soo I left him and applied for divorce... after that I met a childhood frnd of mine... and he promised me no matter what he will always stay and I got knto a relationship with him.. I did not trust him at first but the he introduced me to his family and frnds but then 9 months down the road v hit a rough patch... I wanted to work it through but he did not want to... and he broke up with me over a phone call on my birthday... its been 5 months and it still hurts... 
Please do not send me messages like I am strong blah blah blah..... its not bcoz of strength... I am not able to be strong....  I miss him... nd I wanted him to be my last

3am Thoughts

Ok 2 mnth back i confessed someone i do ve crush on him .it was not intentional later we went for few dates and it was good later i started catching feelings he also confessed he do have but he can't be in relationship because he had lot problems and he is not ready to open up but then later he opened up that before meeting he was kinda dating his friends sister and later he thought it doesn't workout and he moved on but that girl still hadn't moved on and he can't manage all these and he is not good at it so we can be friends but later we met we still gotta dating feel but the whole problem after every meet he kinda ghost me and i donno whether he is a emotional unavailable mahn or he just saying he likes me because of i like him

Boyfriend


So i have a question. its really bothering me since 5/6 years ago. I meet this boy 8 years ago and after a few years he becomes my crush. I’m so confused with his action and the way he talked to me. its seem he likes me sometimes i feel like im overthinking about that thing. now im 24 y/o and he is 23 y/o. during our high school year we always keep in touch with each other. after we got into university, we still contact like wish happy birthday to each other and so on. I know maybe you guys think we are friend right? but i never considered him as my friend. we dont have memories to keep together. its just happen like that. He is the first boy who sent me a birthday wish video even we are not close. as i said, its just happen. all this time, i just thinking about that and seriously i have that feeling of longing for something thats not quite there because of him. and more important, i once asked to him, why he doesnt have gf. he only said he feel like he dont want to. I have feeling later I will meet him again accidently at badminton hall as we both enjoyed playing badminton🥲🥲. So what should I do? i need answer🥲🥲

I'm missing my boyfriend, actually I wanted to part away with him, at that time we both moved on with some one else, but the hurt fact is i was just a friend with the other guy with whom I tried to move on but my boyfriend had a physical relationship with other girl.
I know there is no point of sharing this but don't know why deep down I'm missing him. I know that too he is very happy with other girl he didn't even care if i cry infront of him .

Okkay so long story short . He was working hard for a job so he could marry me. We both loved each other a lot. But my feelings changed and he didnt give commitment saying his parents are little conservative and wanted  sometime when i needed it . 
He was hurt when i dumped him 
But he is now at a good post job and made fun of me saying “u didnt trust me and supported me in my struggle ,good luck with ur new guy,have fun earning 10k a month .. and this ego is not ego i have earned this by my hard work.. not by jumping from guy to another like you did..BPO really suits you u will get a lot of call from males talk to them just like you love doing.. and dont do B.ed cos all you can teach is how to cheat on your partner”

Breakup

Me and my boyfriend were making out, as I was on periods, I could not get invested in that and wasn't doing anything, he was very high , and he did not see that I am not interested anymore, he continued, as he finished, he was shocked to see me still and motionless and immediately apologised, he was very apologetic and kept on saying sorry for what he has done, he himself accepted that it was sort of forceful and non consensual even tough I had not said anything during the make out. Ii feel sad and disconnected from him, I love him but I am not feeling okay after this incident, what shall I do. He is a very good person, he is apologizing, trying to make me feel better and even giving me space to sit and think peacefully. he was the most amazing person i Knew, but after this, I am not feeling good. I don't want to lose the most beautiful experiences of love and life by losing this relationship, but I am scared, is this incident worth forgiving and forgetting, will I feel connected to him again, He is very sorry,he says he won't do it again ever , should I give it a chance or just leave him, please help

Relationships

I'm feeling sad today, I wish that I could breakup.He has said that he will not marry me unless his elder brothers does so. One of his brothers lives in a foreign country.When he comes here, he will start a job, then he will get married.Do not know why it seems that all these will take a lot of time.After that the brother between them will get married, and then ours.My parents are old I have two brothers younger than me.My parents are waiting for my marriage.After that both of my brothers will get married. Do not know that there will be a lot of time in my marriage while waiting.Don't know in which year my marriage will be done.My expectations are slowly decreasing.ाIt seems that until my marriage number comes my parents will not be there.I will not be able to bear this sorrow.I like this person very much, I do not want to leave also he neither me earn much to start a life together, Sometimes there is a desire that I get married to the parents' choice and break up with him But I know this is not good to do with anyone.I am very confused thinking about my future.I feel very scared thinking about the life ahead.


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