Today my bff lied to me again…she’s been lying to me these couple of months…she doesn’t pick up my calls and when I ask she’s like I’m outside and then I find her active on Instagram and messaging apps…I mean its obvious no one uses phones if they are outside…then she said I’m outside and after a couple of seconds she said I’m studying…clearly she was bluffing.
If I say something she’ll just change the subject …
One time I called her and she said I will call you later my dad is scolding me and telling me to keep the phone aside…and then after 5 minutes she’s active on insta…when I asked her about this she send me some laughing emojis and changed the subject …she just didnt wanna talk to me maybe thats why
…I’m doubting our relationship a lot day by day…can anyone help me?
Sanket @sanket
Disconnect for a couple of days. Draft all the things you said here, in a decent manner. Set up a conversation with her. Just clearly ask her what’s wrong between you guys.
Yes I will just confront her.
Thank u so much😄
DISCONNECT!! I know she is your best friend but YOU AND YOUR MENTAL HEALTH IS MORE IMPORTANT. MAYBE GIVE HER SOME SPACE!
I tried that but nothing changed …I’m just gonna confront her
Thank u so much😊
Tanya Singh @dbtanya01
Heyyy!!!
I think you should just straight away tell her that some of her conduct is bothering you and you are no okay with whatever she is doing. Just tell her what you feel in one go, just tell her everything that has been wrong in the past and every issue you are having with her. You can text her whatever you are feeling, whatever you want to say. Text her in one go! Her reply to the problems that you are going to put up or how she reacts to that message will be an answer in itself.
If you feel that her answers or her reaction is not good enough or she doesn’t seem to care much about the problems that you are having then I think you should take a break from that friendship. Discinnect yourself, give yourself time, take a break! I know all this will be difficult since she is your BFF but it will be worth it and in the end, you will definitely get to know what should be done further.
Just text her!
Take Care
All the best!
I think I should just say everything what I’m feeling…if she thinks I’m getting mad at a small issue (every time I confront she says that I juts wanna fight without any reason).
Thank you so much for ur help😊
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Hey i know what you are feeling right now and it happens when other person take us granted and I completely agree with other comments look in every relationship communication play a important part because if one side avoid that part then it will effect on other person because he or she don’t know why they ignore them and it really affect your mental health and communication happens when both parties open to share everything and give there time to sort those things so yup there is also priorities which play important part in relationships so try to stay away to these things and it will make you desperate for some answers which I know you will never get easily so leave that thoughts outside and relax for some time I hope you will understand this
Thank you so much…I’ll give it a thought and think further …thank you for ur help😊
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
I hope it will help you let’s us know about that
