Today i finally going back to my love but my parents are not allowing me they don’t respect my decision they always want to control me for them my happiness doesn’t matters all they want is to be Infront of them weather i like it or not i am tired of explaining them let me jst build myself i don’t want to be dependent on anyone .
Good choice 👍 but ask your parents reasons for their behaviour they might have their reasons …
Just telling…
its been a year since i have told them about my relationship still they are not seeing my happiness they want there status in the community
and now i am all on my own but i wont back off from this
Ramesh N @nova1403
1. Tell whatever to convince them.
2. You should have good job
3. If they still controlling you. Stsy in your path, go and live for ur love and ur life.
4. They lived their life. But its your destiny to live your life.
5. Don’t get married untill they say “ok” for your love.
6. Make sure You’re lover worth for ur family(trustable),
7. Make a visit with both families.
8. You and your love - talk with your parents - convince them.
9. Tell your lover to say to them - we don’t have idea to elope, but we need both families to be happy. Tell your love to beg or kneel to them ask for “ok” -its an emotional trick to lure parents.
10. If still problem - Final answer is elopement/register marriage (you both should be major age).
I think you’re south Indian. 😀
yes i am a south indian & i am in love with a maharashtrian girl .
Now my father is jst trying to convince me to come back to my native
& to start a business with him but i dont feel like going there now
Right now i jst want to be happy .
& i dont know what will do but i am trying to get a good job
but these emotions sometimes make me feel like jst to run away from all the responsibilties
But i cant ignore this …
i jst want my parents to accept her as Her parents have accepted me
Ramesh N @nova1403
Don’t go. Don’t fall for your parents emotions. They will do emotional blackmails.
Even my sister got emotional blackmailed by my parents, for different caste/low salary.
Now she got married to another person.
Its your life choose wisely.