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Anonymous

Today I came to know that my ex had got married last month. I donโ€™t know why my heart has been heavy since Iโ€™ve got this news. Iโ€™m not supposed to feel this way but stillโ€ฆ
I should be happy for him but Iโ€™m not able to convince myself. What should I do?How can I convince myself?

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Anonymous
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See itโ€™s okay to feel like this. As you were once in love with that person this is normal to feel this, but on a bright side, heโ€™s happy with his current life, and thereโ€™s a chance for you to be happy with life, so take it. Enjoy your life, live every moment to the fullest, thereโ€™ll be new people in your life whoโ€™ll be right for you in every aspect. So just try to move on, I know thisโ€™ll be hard for you, but youโ€™ll have to try. All the best.

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Anonymous
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I was happy. But after getting this information Iโ€™m little bit sad. It had been better if he wouldnโ€™t have informed me. Like he knows Iโ€™m not interested in his life anymore but he keeps on checking and informing major things of his life. Like dude spare me ๐Ÿ˜–

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Anonymous
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See if itโ€™s bothering you, youโ€™ll have to just ignore him, see and now heโ€™s married, itโ€™ll be okay to not to keep ant contact with him. Like itโ€™ll help you in a way I guess.

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Anonymous
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I have been ignoring him and I will do in future too and neither do I contact him. I havenโ€™t talked to him since so long. Iโ€™ve came to know through text and I donโ€™t reply him anymore. From my side Iโ€™ve cut all the contacts, Iโ€™ve even blocked him.

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Anonymous
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Ohh, itโ€™s okay, youโ€™ll move on from this, after a while itโ€™ll stop bothering you. Just donโ€™t get bothered by small things. Heโ€™ll attempt to do that, just ignore and leave it as it is. See I know these are the advices youll hear often, but here in this situation, thatโ€™s only thing that you can do just, trust the process and try to move on, thisโ€™ll also stop bothering you.

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Anonymous
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Ikr it was a big thing for me i guess but itโ€™s ok. I wanted someone to hear me, understand me and talk to me. Thanks for being there. Iโ€™m little bit relaxed now i think. Ik that I should move on but i wanted some strength and wise words which Iโ€™ve got from you. Iโ€™ll be fine and happy as I was :)
Thanks for hearing me. Iโ€™m really grateful to you :)

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Anonymous
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Ohh no problem, you donโ€™t have to thank me ๐Ÿ˜…
Anyways take care.

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Anonymous
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I will and you too take care:)

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Richa @richa__24

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Move on โ€ฆ
He/ she donโ€™t deserve you
You are more better than him/ her
You should be happy

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Anonymous
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Ikr tbh I was happy and living my life. But this thing literally made me think that I was really happy or was just pretending to be one. I think it would take some time for me to accept this. But ykw the worst part is marriage scenes are running in my mind.

sheker @shekernandhu

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Try to keep ur self busy. I too had beautiful love stories. When they got married i cried like I was in hell. But at the same time I put my self busy. The. Slowly I came out of it. Hope this will help you too.

hendrly khowa @herdrly

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Hloo richa where are you from

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