Today for the 1st time in last 5 years i didn’t talked to that one person i considered my all. She is great as a person but i dont know why she changed so drastically as she stepped into her college. She isn’t ready to accept that she is in relationship whereas i even asked her if she is not comfortable to share about me atleast tell people that she is committed and there have been so many complaint which i made peacefully. I still hold great respect for her but i feel like i am being taken for granted. I was expecting her to care but she isn’t kind anymore. I don’t know how to deal with this situation for the first time i choose not to text/call ended up getting none from her
Nitin @nitinsxngh
I guess new place, new people, less time from her side and insecurities, over thinking from your side, and fight between you two, at this phase it happens mostly, from her perspective, it’s ok, I guess no one will open up all in one, don’t force her to tell people that you guys are committed, don’t force her for anything, this will show your insecurities, if she wants she will, it’s the most vulnerable time for you guys, try to overcome this situation.
To be honest aise mere sath ho chuka hai bhai, apna respect aone paas rakh bhai, tumari dard samajh sakta hu, bohot neglected feel hota hai, wo abhi hawa me udd rahi hai, naye log usse achhe lagne lage hai, tu ab purana ho chuka, jo sukoon tu usse deta tha uska source abhi kahi aur hai. ha ye sunne me kharab lage but ye sach hai. isse maan lo. aur apne upar dhyan do. jindegi ruki nhi rahegi. tum ruk jaoge to sab se bichhar jaoge. To apni race dourte raho .
aur ha rona aye to ro lena,dukh dard hona normal hai. emotions mat daba ke rakho…
Brother
If she not wanting to tell about u to her mates she ain’t one. That’s a huge red flag right there! I suggest u to understand one thing keeping 5 yrs aside, how do u feel about her now, how does she feel about u at present matter more! And people can out grow of love! It’s hard but accept it. I get how u feel. Please sit down and talk to ur patner clearly. Rooting for u guys!
